Wellspring
Operational system for running UU Wellspring spiritual deepening groups at Foothills Unitarian Church. Staff Lead: Rev. Sean Neil-Barron.
- Overview
- Annual Timeline
- Roles
- Processes
- Email Templates
- Recruiting Sources Participants
- Recruiting Second-Year Participants
- Welcome Letter 1 - The Basics
- Welcome Letter 2 - More Information
- Second-Year Group Assignments
- Resources and Guides
- Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Circles of Trust
- Required and Optional Books
- Spiritual Directors List
- Administration
- Sources Sessions
- Session 1: Welcoming the Soul
- Session 2: Everyday Theology
- Session 3: Spiritual Histories
- Session 4: Prophetic Voices of Our UU Ancestors
- Session 5: Prophetic Voices of Today
- Session 6: Your Own Prophetic Voice
- Session 7: Solstice Ritual
- Session 8: Jewish and Christian Teachings
- Session 9: Reimagining God: Process Theology
- Session 10: Prayer
- Session 11: World Religions
- Session 12: Forgiveness and Letting Go
- Session 13: Nature as Spiritual Guide
- Session 14: UUism and the Crisis of Life
- Session 15: The Theology of Joy
- Session 16: Good Without God
- Session 17: UU Perspectives on Death and the Afterlife
- Session 18: Let Your Life Speak
- Session 19: Celebration and Reflection
- Sources Facilitator Guide
Overview
Wellspring OS - Overview
Wellspring OS - Overview
This is the operational system for running UU Wellspring spiritual deepening groups at Foothills Unitarian Church.
Staff Lead: Rev. Sean Neil-Barron National Organization: UU Wellspring
Mission
The Wellspring Leadership Group is committed to engaging the Foothills congregation in a process and practice of spiritual deepening in accordance with our church mission. Wellspring responds to the Mission statement of growing our faith and awakening our spirits.
How This Book Is Organized
- Annual Timeline -- The full month-by-month operational cycle from January through December
- Roles -- Descriptions of key roles: WSLT, Sources Facilitator, Facilitator Mentor, Ministerial Staff Lead
- Processes -- Step-by-step guides for facilitator recruitment, participant recruitment, second-year offerings, and the opening retreat
- Email Templates -- Ready-to-customize templates for every major communication
- Resources and Guides -- Quick-start guide, Circles of Trust, book lists, spiritual directors
- Administration -- Forms, links, PCO tasks, and the Shared Ministry Covenant
Document Repository
Wellspring Leadership Team Shared Drive
Quick Navigation
Roles
Processes
Email Templates
- Recruiting Sources Participants
- Recruiting Second-Year Participants
- Welcome Letter 1 - The Basics
- Welcome Letter 2 - More Information
- Second-Year Group Assignments
Resources
- Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Circles of Trust
- Required and Optional Books
- Spiritual Directors List
Administration
Shared Ministry Covenant
Wellspring Shared Ministry Covenant
Google Doc: Original Worksheet
Overview
Mission Statement
This Wellspring Leadership Group is committed to engaging the Foothills congregation in a process and practice of spiritual deepening in accordance with our church mission.
Connection to Foothills Mission
Wellspring responds to the Mission statement of growing our faith and awakening our spirits.
Impact
Wellspring's impact is evident when Sources facilitators share testimonials of groups forming, norming, gelling, and then diving deeper into their own experiences and values as they complete Wellspring materials for each session. When WS participants volunteer to facilitate a course of WS Sources or sign up for a Wellspring second-level course, that indicates they have been positively impacted by the WS experience.
Group Details
- Type: Longer Term Group (meets longer than one group cycle, not ongoing)
- Mission Orientation: Spiritual Deepening
- Directory Category: Small Groups
- Staff Lead: Rev. Sean Neil-Barron
Timeline for Covenant Work
- April: WSLT begins work on the covenant for the annual review process
- May: WSLT submits covenant documentation for annual review
- Draft submitted for consideration: May
Financial Resources
- UU Wellspring annual payment: $550
- Retreat supplies (printing)
- Required reading books for Foothills library supply
- Possible catering for annual gathering (potluck is also an option)
Facilities Use
- Weekend retreat facility usage (August)
- Bi-monthly group meeting rooms (September through May)
- Space for Annual Gathering and information sessions (patio, front yard, classroom)
Lessons Learned (2023-24)
- A Zoom-only Sources group had attrition, raising the question of whether Zoom Wellspring should be offered in the future.
- Two newcomers to UU faith in one Sources group was viewed as an impediment to full participation. The requirement to have been active at Foothills needs to be faithfully adhered to.
- When a participant objects to a piece of curriculum, a nuanced response is required that underlines how everyone's needs, ideas, and thoughts matter.
50-Word Description
Wellspring is a robust and deeply spiritual program developed through the UUA providing numerous curriculums to offer UU congregants an opportunity to further the knowledge and practice of their UU faith, to explore their deeply held values, and to use this knowledge to deepen spiritually and enhance their UU faith experience.
Annual Timeline
Full Annual Timeline
Wellspring Annual Timeline
This is the month-by-month operational timeline for running UU Wellspring at Foothills. Links throughout point to supplemental documents with full content for templates, role descriptions, resources, and forms.
January
WSLT Self-Assessment and Reorganization
- WSLT reflects on its own makeup and discerns whether to invite new members or rotate off.
- WSLT reorganizes and/or invites new members.
- Ask staff to add new members as Wellspring PCO Group Type Managers in PCO Groups
- Ensure new members are editors in PCO, have access to PCO Forms, and can send emails
- Add new WSLT members to Shared Drive
Website Review
- WSLT reviews Foothills Wellspring website and conveys any updates to staff (send to Communications Manager).
Facilitator Support
- WSLT hosts check-in with current Sources/LATC facilitators to offer support and begin discerning which participants might serve as facilitators.
- Goal: Identify potential facilitators; apprentices practice facilitation in their own groups.
Curriculum Review
- WSLT reviews UU Wellspring website and updates Foothills' facilitator resources: Quick-Start Guide, Spiritual Directors List, and book list.
Second-Year Discernment
- With input from current Sources facilitators and past participants, WSLT discerns whether there is interest in a second-year offering and which curriculum might be offered.
Short-Term Groups
- Short-term groups (Sacred Earth, Wellspring Reads, etc.) begin meeting.
February
Facilitator Identification
- With input from current Sources facilitators, WSLT identifies candidates for Sources facilitators for the following year.
Facilitator Outreach
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Email is sent over the name of the ministerial staff lead to current and past WS Sources participants inviting them to consider Sources facilitation.
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WSLT and/or current Sources facilitators extend personal invitations to likely facilitator candidates.
- During a WS Sources session, invite participants to write down 1-2 names of people from their group who they think might be a good facilitator.
Serve Form
- Facilitation volunteers are asked to fill out the Serve Form. Wellspring facilitators are listed under "Adult Spiritual Deepening."
March
Admin Updates
- WSLT asks Admin Staff to update PCO People Wellspring Completion Dates in Profiles.
Facilitator Finalization
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Beginning of March: Sources facilitators for the next year are finalized.
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Facilitators are asked to identify their preferred time slots (day of week, meeting time, meeting format) and starting date (retreat date).
- If more than one Sources group is forming, all facilitators need to commit to the same retreat date.
- Submit Event Reservation and Promotion Form for Wellspring groups (1 form, include all details for each group).
Application Update
- Sources application is updated to reflect times facilitators agree to meet as well as the retreat date.
Second-Year Interest Survey
- Once facilitators are finalized, WSLT surveys WS grads and current Sources participants to measure interest in second-year offerings and creates or updates second-year enrollment form.
Promotion
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WSLT drafts newsletter article promoting WS Sources enrollment.
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WSLT orders participant reflection journals from UU Wellspring website for new facilitators as a welcome gift.
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WSLT submits Event Reservation and Promotion Form at least 2 weeks in advance for: Wellspring Annual Gathering, WS Sources enrollment promotion, and "Ask Me About Wellspring" coffee hour conversation.
Wellspring Annual Gathering
- WSLT hosts Wellspring Annual Gathering to bring past participants and current Sources participants together.
Purpose: Recruit facilitators, encourage participant recruitment, gauge interest in second-year program, address "What's Next" (So What After Wellspring?).
Sample Agenda (from 2024 Info Session, 9:30-10:30):
- Welcome
- Overview of Wellspring, emphasizing new Love at the Center curriculum
- Impact of Wellspring: 2 testimonials
- Wellspring / Sacred Arts / Journey overview
- "We Need You!" recruit for facilitators and leadership team
- Survey of interests for next year (written, distributed at sign-in)
- Name tags indicating past/present/future participant status
- Brunch finger food, coffee, tea
April
Mentor Assignment
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WSLT identifies mentors for new facilitators.
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WSLT mentor(s) reach out to new Sources facilitators to welcome them, establish the mentoring relationship, share the Quick-Start Guide, and present participant reflection journals.
Participant Recruitment Begins
- Sources participant recruitment begins:
- Newsletter article promoting WS Sources enrollment is published.
- WSLT encourages current year's facilitators to speak with their groups about sharing the WS experience and considering second-year offerings.
- Email is sent to all Wellspring grads asking whom they would nominate as Sources participants for the next year (using Wellspring Nomination Form and Interested In Wellspring Group).
- WS Sources testimonial chalice lighting is offered by a current participant or facilitator.
- WSLT and/or next year's facilitators host "Ask Me About Wellspring" information session at coffee hour in mid-to-late April.
Second-Year Communication
- If a second-year offering is planned, WSLT emails WS Sources grads what curriculum will be offered and provides second-year enrollment link.
- WSLT begins work on the Shared Ministry Covenant for the annual review process.
May
Feedback
- WSLT sends All Wellspring Groups Feedback Form.
Roster Finalization
- WSLT reviews Sources applications and the Sources participant roster is finalized.
Financial Support
- WSLT sends ministerial lead a list of people requesting financial support. Ministerial lead will assess funds and send out information to them about that process.
Enrollment Notification
- WSLT notifies Sources participants by email of their enrollment.
Second-Year Finalization
- If a second-year curriculum is offered, WSLT finalizes participant roster and notifies participants.
June
Enrollment Notification
- WSLT notifies Sources participants of their enrollment.
- Remove anyone who joins a group from the Interested Group in PCO.
Second-Year Group Assignment
- If a second-year curriculum is offered, WSLT notifies participants of their group assignment if necessary.
PCO Group Setup
- Church staff builds PCO groups for Sources and for any self-facilitating second-year offering.
- Include adding events to event calendars.
Curriculum Access
- Ministerial staff handles UU Wellspring billing to obtain curriculum passwords for upcoming year and communicates to WSLT.
Book Discounts
- WSLT contacts local bookstores for possible group discounts on required readings.
June/July
Archive and Transition
- Archive old Wellspring Groups in PCO Groups.
New Facilitator Orientation
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WSLT designees/mentors meet with new Sources facilitators to orient them to resources on UU Wellspring website and use of PCO if needed.
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Sources facilitators register on the UU Wellspring website and plan to attend UUWellspring facilitator training.
Welcome Emails
- Sources facilitators send welcome email to their groups providing instructions on books to obtain, guidance on lining up a spiritual director/companion/friend, and a reminder of the retreat date.
Second-Year Groups
- If a second-year offering is planned, WSLT emails self-facilitating groups with their curriculum-specific password and encouragement to begin their work of forming.
August
Sources Retreat
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Sources retreat is held.
- If only one Sources group is forming: That group's facilitators conduct the retreat with the WSLT available to assist if needed.
- If more than one Sources group is forming: The WSLT will be more involved to open and close the retreat, supplementing the facilitators' work with their own groups while creating a shared experience across the groups. Ministerial staff lead may meet briefly with retreat attendees to encourage/inspire.
Second-Year Encouragement
- If a second-year offering is planned, WSLT offers encouragement as needed for self-facilitating groups to schedule their first session.
September
Groups Begin
- Year-long groups begin meeting.
Short-Term Planning
- WSLT confirms facilitators are in place for any short-term WS groups to be offered in January (e.g. Sacred Earth).
October
Note: The 11-session "Love at the Center" curriculum affects programming in this month. Check UU Wellspring for current release status.
Facilitator Check-In
- WSLT designees/mentors host check-in meeting for Sources facilitators to share experiences, offer support, and problem-solve if needed.
- Facilitators share feedback with mentor from Group Health Check.
- WSLT consults with ministerial staff lead if additional guidance is needed.
Second-Year Support
- WSLT offers support/encouragement to second-year group(s) if needed.
Short-Term Group Promotion
- WSLT works with staff to publicize any short-term offering to begin in January (e.g. Sacred Earth).
Curriculum Access for Short-Term
- Ministerial staff handles UU Wellspring billing to obtain curriculum password for any short-term offering.
November/December
Short-Term Group Setup
- Staff builds PCO group for short-term offering.
Facilitator Support
- WSLT designee/mentor supports short-term offering facilitators in accessing UU Wellspring curriculum and PCO as needed to communicate with their group(s).
See Also
- Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Facilitator Recruitment
- Participant Recruitment
- Second-Year Offerings
- Opening Retreat
- PCO and Admin Tasks
- Forms and Links
Roles
Wellspring Leadership Team (WSLT)
Role: Wellspring Leadership Team (WSLT)
Purpose
The WSLT drives the annual Wellspring cycle at Foothills. It recruits and supports facilitators, manages participant enrollment, coordinates with staff, and ensures continuity of the program year over year.
Membership
The team is composed of Wellspring graduates who volunteer to serve. The team reflects on its own makeup each January and discerns whether to invite new members or rotate off. The WSLT is functional for a focused period each spring/summer, typically meeting 4-6 times between spring and August.
Current and past members are tracked in PCO: Wellspring Leadership Team Members
Onboarding New Members
When new members join the WSLT:
- Ask staff to add them as Wellspring PCO Group Type Managers in PCO Groups
- Ensure they are editors in PCO, have access to PCO Forms, and can send emails
- Add them to the Shared Drive
Key Responsibilities
- Facilitator recruitment and finalization (Feb-March)
- Mentor assignment for new facilitators (April)
- Participant recruitment and enrollment (April-May)
- Second-year offering discernment and coordination
- Hosting the Wellspring Annual Gathering (March)
- Opening retreat coordination (August)
- Facilitator check-ins (January, October)
- Short-term group planning (September-December)
- Shared Ministry Covenant annual submission (May)
Communication
The WSLT communicates primarily via email and texts. Wellspring groups themselves communicate via PCO.
See Also
Sources Facilitator
Role: Sources Facilitator
Purpose
Sources facilitators guide small groups through the year-long Wellspring Sources (or Love at the Center) curriculum. They create and hold space for spiritual deepening using the Circle of Trust model.
How Facilitators Are Identified
Facilitator candidates emerge from current Wellspring participants. The process begins in January when the WSLT hosts check-ins with current facilitators, and candidates are identified in February.
During Sources sessions, participants may be invited to write down 1-2 names of people from their group who they think might be a good facilitator. Personal invitations from WSLT and current facilitators follow.
Expectations
- Facilitate group sessions according to the UU Wellspring curriculum
- Maintain a daily spiritual practice
- Work monthly with a spiritual director, spiritual companion, or spiritual friend
- Use PCO Groups to email members, plan events, take attendance, and share resources
- Send welcome emails to group participants before the retreat
- Attend UU Wellspring facilitator training
- Register on the UU Wellspring website
Support
Each new facilitator is paired with a mentor from the WSLT who serves as a resource, sounding board, and cheerleader throughout the year.
Facilitators also receive:
- A participant reflection journal as a welcome gift
- The Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Access to UU Wellspring facilitator resources
- Check-in meetings with mentors in October and January
Volunteer Form
Facilitation volunteers fill out the Serve Form under "Adult Spiritual Deepening."
Growing New Leaders
Facilitators are encouraged to help develop the next generation by identifying participants who demonstrate an aptitude for supporting group process and engagement.
See Also
Facilitator Mentor
Role: Facilitator Mentor
Purpose
Mentors are experienced Foothills Wellspring facilitators who are paired with new Sources facilitators to provide guidance, encouragement, and practical support throughout the facilitation year.
Assignment
WSLT identifies mentors in April and pairs them with new facilitators.
Responsibilities
- Welcome new facilitators and establish the mentoring relationship
- Share the Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Present participant reflection journals
- Orient new facilitators to resources on the UU Wellspring website and PCO (June/July)
- Check in periodically to offer support and help problem-solve
- Host formal check-in meetings with facilitators in October and January
- Collect feedback from facilitators via the Group Health Check
- Consult with ministerial staff lead if additional guidance is needed
- Support short-term offering facilitators (Nov/Dec) in accessing curriculum and PCO
See Also
Ministerial Staff Lead
Role: Ministerial Staff Lead
Current
Rev. Sean Neil-Barron
Responsibilities
- Sends facilitator recruitment email over their name in February
- Handles UU Wellspring billing to obtain curriculum passwords (June and October)
- Assesses financial support funds and communicates with participants requesting assistance (May)
- May meet briefly with retreat attendees to encourage/inspire (August)
- Available for consultation when WSLT or facilitators need additional guidance
- Participates in Shared Ministry Covenant annual review
Processes
Facilitator Recruitment
Process: Facilitator Recruitment
Overview
Facilitator recruitment runs from January through early March, moving from identification through personal invitation to finalization.
Timeline
January: WSLT hosts check-in with current facilitators. Begin discerning which participants might serve as facilitators. Apprentices practice facilitation in their own groups.
February:
- WSLT and current facilitators identify candidates.
- Ministerial staff lead sends email to current and past Sources participants inviting them to consider facilitation.
- WSLT and/or current facilitators extend personal invitations.
- During a Sources session, invite participants to write down 1-2 names of people from their group who they think might be a good facilitator.
- Volunteers fill out the Serve Form under "Adult Spiritual Deepening."
Early March: Facilitators are finalized. They identify preferred time slots and retreat date.
March: The Wellspring Annual Gathering also serves as a facilitator recruitment opportunity.
April: WSLT identifies mentors for new facilitators and begins onboarding.
Key Principle
Over 1/5 of people at Foothills have been through Wellspring. The best recruitment comes from 1:1 personal invitations from current facilitators and WSLT members who have seen potential in participants.
Requirement
Participants being considered should have been active at Foothills in attendance, small group, or volunteer capacity. This requirement needs to be faithfully adhered to. (Lesson from 2023-24: two newcomers to UU faith in one group was viewed as an impediment to full participation.)
See Also
Participant Recruitment
Process: Participant Recruitment
Overview
Participant recruitment runs from April through May, relying heavily on personal invitations from Wellspring graduates.
Timeline
April:
May:
- WSLT sends All Wellspring Groups Feedback Form.
- WSLT reviews Sources applications. Roster is finalized.
- WSLT sends ministerial lead a list of people requesting financial support.
- WSLT notifies Sources participants by email of their enrollment.
The Ask (from Grad Recruitment Email)
Wellspring grads are asked to:
- Make a list of three people who need Wellspring (remembering they should have been around Foothills for a bit and participated in adult programs or small groups).
- Write each of them a note sharing one reason they loved the experience and a specific reason why they think that person would too. Invite them to chat about it in the next two weeks.
- Share the link to the Wellspring page.
Key Principle
1:1 personal invitations from Wellspring grads are the most effective way to get the right people into the program.
Application
- Sources Application Form (updated each March with facilitator-confirmed meeting times and retreat date)
- Love at the Center Application (Admin) / Public
See Also
Second-Year Offerings
Process: Second-Year Offerings
Overview
Second-year Wellspring offerings (Sacred Arts, Faithful Action, etc.) are self-facilitating groups for Sources graduates. The WSLT discerns interest, coordinates enrollment, and provides initial support, but the groups themselves share facilitation responsibilities.
Curriculum Options
Check UU Wellspring for current second-year program descriptions. Past offerings at Foothills have included Sacred Arts and Faithful Action.
Timeline
January: WSLT discerns whether there is interest in a second-year offering and which curriculum might be offered, with input from current Sources facilitators and past participants.
March: Once Sources facilitators are finalized, WSLT surveys WS grads and current Sources participants to measure interest. Creates or updates second-year enrollment form.
April: If offering is planned, WSLT emails WS Sources grads with curriculum details and enrollment link.
May: WSLT finalizes participant roster and notifies participants.
June: WSLT notifies participants of group assignments if necessary. Church staff builds PCO groups.
June/July: WSLT emails self-facilitating groups with their curriculum-specific password and encouragement to begin forming.
August: WSLT offers encouragement as needed for groups to schedule first session.
October: WSLT offers ongoing support/encouragement if needed.
Self-Facilitating Group Expectations
Each participant shares in facilitation responsibilities. Groups are encouraged to:
- Identify a volunteer to take administrative lead for the first session or two
- Establish a covenant during the first session
- Take turns sending out session assignments, making room/zoom reservations, facilitating sessions, and recording attendance
- Meet bimonthly on a day and time determined by the group
See Also
Opening Retreat
Process: Opening Retreat
Overview
The opening retreat launches each new Sources cohort, typically held in August before year-long groups begin meeting in September. The retreat format varies depending on how many groups are forming.
Format
Single group forming: That group's facilitators conduct the retreat with the WSLT available to assist if needed.
Multiple groups forming: The WSLT will be more involved, opening and closing the retreat and supplementing the facilitators' work with their own groups while creating a shared experience across the groups. The ministerial staff lead may meet briefly with retreat attendees to encourage and inspire.
Logistics
- All facilitators must commit to the same retreat date if multiple groups are forming (confirmed in March).
- Submit Event Reservation and Promotion Form for room reservations.
- Retreat supplies (printing, etc.) come from the Wellspring budget.
Participant Preparation
Before the retreat, participants should:
- Read as much of Everyday Spiritual Practice edited by Scott W. Alexander as they can
- Choose one or two spiritual practices from the book to try
- Respond in their journal to: "How do you describe your spiritual life?"
- Watch the video on Why Respecting Pronouns Is So Important
- Bring a writing device or paper/pen (or the optional UU Wellspring Sources Reflection Journal), a folder or binder, two smooth stones, and an open mind and heart
See Also
Email Templates
Recruiting Sources Participants
Template: Recruiting Sources Participants
Google Doc: Original
When to Use
Sent in February over the name of the ministerial staff lead to current and past WS Sources participants, inviting them to consider facilitation and to recruit participants for the next cohort.
Template Text
Hi _______________
Can you believe we've finished another year of Wellspring at Foothills? Over 1/5 people at Foothills have now been through this remarkable program.
I am filled with curiosity as to what listening to your inner teacher has generated in your life, where you feel this work of inner formation is learning you (and I bet you are too!).
We are beginning to recruit for next year's Wellspring Cohort and we need your help on two fronts:
Wellspring Facilitators -- We are on the lookout for 4-6 facilitators for Wellspring Sources next year. If you are feeling the call to go deeper into your wellspring experience and give back this is for you. Get in touch with [WSLT contact name] ([email]) if you want to learn more and if you are in, make sure to fill out the Serve Form (Wellspring Facilitator will reveal itself once you select Adult Spiritual Deepening).
Next Cohort Recruitment -- We know that the best way to recruit the next cohort is for you to do it for us! This may seem like we are passing the buck, but 1:1 personal invitations from Wellspring Grads are the most effective ways to get the right type of people in the program.
So here's what we need you to do:
Make a list of three people who need Wellspring (remembering they should have been around Foothills for a bit and participated in some of our adult programs or small groups before)
Write each of them a note -- share one reason you loved the experience and a specific reason why you think they would too. Invite them to chat about it sometime in the next two weeks to answer any questions.
Don't forget to share the link to the Wellspring page. Applications will be open soon near the beginning of May!
Thanks in advance for your help in this; truly, it makes a difference.
Many many thanks and gratitude to you all,
in faith,
Rev. Sean
on behalf of the Wellspring Core Team ([current WSLT member names])
Customization Notes
- Update WSLT contact name and email for the current year
- Update WSLT member names in the sign-off
- Adjust the Wellspring page link if it has changed
- Confirm the Serve Form link is current
See Also
Recruiting Second-Year Participants
Template: Recruiting Second-Year Participants
Google Doc: Original
When to Use
Sent in April to WS Sources grads when a second-year offering is planned. Needs to be tailored to the specific program being offered. See UU Wellspring for program descriptors.
Template Text
Dear Wellspring Sources Alumni,
Did you find your first year of Wellspring meaningful?
Are you looking for a space to do more inner work to deepen your own sense of creation and creativity?
You are invited into Wellspring [PROGRAM NAME], a year of [PROGRAM DESCRIPTION] to start the tiny revolutions of connection and resistance in our personal lives, our Unitarian Universalist communities, and the world.
You can find more details about the program here: [LINK TO PROGRAM DESCRIPTION ON UU WELLSPRING SITE]
The group is forming now, with the intention of beginning in September and meeting bimonthly on a day and time to be determined by the group. This group also will be self-facilitating, meaning each participant will share in facilitation responsibilities.
If you would like to be a part, please contact any member of the Wellspring Leadership Team as soon as possible.
Warmly,
The Wellspring Leadership Team
[WSLT member names and email addresses]
Customization Notes
- Replace [PROGRAM NAME] with the specific second-year curriculum (Sacred Arts, Faithful Action, etc.)
- Replace [PROGRAM DESCRIPTION] with language from UU Wellspring's description
- Link to the program's table of contents or description on the UU Wellspring site
- Update WSLT member names and contact info
Welcome Letter 1 - The Basics
Template: Welcome Letter 1 - The Basics
Google Doc: Original
When to Use
Sent by facilitators to their group as soon as the group has been set up in PCO. This is the first of two welcome letters. Follow with Welcome Letter 2 five to seven days later so as not to overwhelm.
Template Text
Dear friends,
With great anticipation, we welcome you to UU Wellspring - Sources!
UU Wellspring - Sources is a nine-month Unitarian Universalist program of spiritual deepening and connection. Our hope is that over the course of the next ten months we will deepen our individual spiritual lives and our connections to one another through an intentional program of daily spiritual practice, spiritual companionship, study and reflection, and online small group meetings.
Meetings We will meet [room location] on [day and time]
Here are all of our meeting dates: [facilitator, please list all dates here]
Please put all of the dates in your calendars now so that you can protect the time.
Retreat Our opening retreat will take place from 8:30am-12pm on [DATE] at Foothills Unitarian Church at 1815 Yorktown Ave.
Materials For the Retreat:
- Either a device to write online or paper and pen or the optional UU Wellspring Sources Reflection Journal for purchase
- Folder or binder to store your materials
- Two smooth stones
- An open mind and open heart
Some "to do's" before the retreat:
- Read as much of Everyday Spiritual Practice edited by Scott W. Alexander as you can. (We have some copies to borrow in the Foothills library, room 221.) Choose one or two spiritual practices from the book that seem like something you might want to try.
- Preview the materials below to get a sense of the time you may need to fully take in the wisdom offered. Then plan out your time to read and journal.
- For your first journal entry, respond to the question: How do you describe your spiritual life?
Additional materials for reflection: We will be writing again in a week or so with additional materials for reflection as you prepare for our retreat.
Finally and importantly, please watch this short video on respect since we will be introducing ourselves using our pronouns:
- Why Respecting Pronouns Is So Important (3.5 min)
It will be so good to be together as we learn to listen deeply to our stories and reflect on what is most important in our lives.
With great anticipation of our journey together,
[Facilitator(s) name(s) and contact information]
Customization Notes
- Fill in meeting location, day/time, and all meeting dates
- Fill in retreat date
- Confirm the library room number and book availability
- Update facilitator contact information
See Also
Welcome Letter 2 - More Information
Template: Welcome Letter 2 - More Information for Exploration
Google Doc: Original
When to Use
Sent 5-7 days after Welcome Letter 1 so as not to overwhelm. Contains deeper preparation materials including Circles of Trust orientation, spiritual direction information, and the full book list.
Template Text
Dear friends,
As we prepare for our UU Wellspring - Sources retreat on [DATE], and for our group to begin soon thereafter, we are reaching out with some materials to explore to help get oriented and grounded in Wellspring.
Though this email looks long, the videos are quite short and manageable. Please set aside a few periods of time between now and our retreat to engage with these materials and reflect using the journal prompt. Your retreat experience will be richer for it.
Circles of Trust
Parker Palmer shares a foundational rule for Circles of Trust and UU Wellspring groups: "No fixing, no saving, no advising, no setting each other straight." The rule is simple, but abiding by it is hard work for people accustomed to straightening each other out as a way of life.
"So what do we do in a circle of trust? We speak our own truth; we listen receptively to the truth of others; we ask each other honest, open questions instead of giving counsel; and we offer each other the healing and empowering gifts of silence and laughter."
-- Hidden Wholeness by Parker Palmer, p. 116
Circle of Trust Videos:
- Chapter 4: Circles of Trust (4.5 min)
- Chapter 5: Establishing the Conditions of Circles of Trust (5.5 min)
- Circles of Trust in UU Wellspring (6.5 min)
Journal Prompt: What are the hallmarks of a circle of trust? According to Parker Palmer, what is the soul, and what can we do that might inhibit or welcome the soul? What are the obstacles to living an undivided life?
Spiritual Direction
UU Wellspring encourages all participants to have a spiritual companion while in UU Wellspring. There are several ways to accomplish this, which are laid out in the following video. We will discuss this more during the retreat.
Video:
- Spiritual Direction (20 min)
Journal Prompt: What interests you about meeting with a spiritual director? What do you wonder about that might be an interesting topic to discuss with a spiritual director?
Required and Optional Books for Sources
Read as Much as You Can Before the Retreat:
- Everyday Spiritual Practice: Simple Pathways for Enriching Your Life, Scott Alexander, editor
Optional (referred to throughout the program):
- Voices from the Margins edited by Jacqui James and Mark D. Morrison-Reed
- To Wake, To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilience edited by Rev. William Sinkford
Read Before Session 14:
- Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker
Read Before Session 18:
- Let Your Life Speak by Parker Palmer
NOTE: We have many of these books in our Foothills library in room 221. The books in the curriculum are also generally available through the UUA Inspirit bookstore or through your favorite online or local bookseller. If you are unable to purchase books and cannot find them at the library, let us know.
Finally, we are including this reminder to watch this short video on respect since we will be introducing ourselves using our pronouns:
- Why Respecting Pronouns Is So Important (3.5 min)
With great anticipation of our journey together, [Facilitator(s) name(s)]
Customization Notes
- Fill in the retreat date
- Update facilitator names
- Confirm video links are still active
- Check book availability in Foothills library
See Also
Second-Year Group Assignments
Template: Second-Year Group Assignments
Google Doc: Original
When to Use
Sent in May/June to second-year enrollees communicating their group assignments. Needs tailoring to the specific program offered.
Template Text
Dear Wellspring [PROGRAM THEME, e.g. "Creators"],
After careful consideration of all the preferences of the [NUMBER] individuals who asked to participate in UU Wellspring "[PROGRAM NAME]," we are pleased to inform you of your group assignment.
You and the other recipients of this email are in the [Group Meeting Day, Time and format -- virtual or in person].
In the next couple weeks, the church office will build your group in the church Planning Center Online (PCO), which will enable you all -- as a self-facilitating, leader-full group -- to communicate with one another, schedule your meetings, and record attendance so our collective community can have an accurate measure of our faith-deepening engagement. The full "[PROGRAM NAME]" assignments and session plans will be unlocked for you later this summer.
As next steps to take now, you are encouraged to:
- Obtain a copy of the one required book: [REQUIRED BOOK TITLE AND AUTHOR]
- Review the session summary of [PROGRAM NAME] meeting topics [LINK]
- Review your calendar between [START MONTH/YEAR] and [END MONTH/YEAR] with an eye toward identifying dates of potential conflict and agreement for scheduling your twice-monthly meetings with your group cohort.
- Schedule your mutually agreed upon first session for two hours.
- Watch your email for details when the PCO group goes live and the full curriculum is open.
If there's anything more we can do to support you on this next phase of your Wellspring journey, please let us know.
In faith,
The Foothills Wellspring Leadership Team
([WSLT member names and Rev. Sean])
Customization Notes
- Replace all bracketed fields with current-year specifics
- Confirm the required book for the curriculum being offered
- Link to the session summary/table of contents on UU Wellspring site
- Update date ranges and WSLT member names
Resources and Guides
Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
Google Doc: Original
Wellspring Love at the Center Quick-Start Guide
A Resource for New Facilitators at Foothills Unitarian Church
Congratulations on taking this next step on your spiritual journey! Your group will be meeting eleven times over the course of the year. Wellspring has requested that we begin these groups in October since the curriculum is new and in development. Please note that the curriculum does not begin with a group retreat.
Your group is scheduled to meet on _________________ from _____ to ________. If you are choosing to meet at church please make room reservations for your group using this form: Event reservation and promotion
This year, you'll be helping others grow in their Unitarian Universalist faith by making the UU Wellspring curriculum available to your small group. Don't worry, though. You won't be doing it alone.
The UUWellspring organization makes detailed training resources and session-by-session curriculum guides available at their website. And the Foothills' Wellspring Leadership Team, in partnership with Foothills' professional ministerial staff, is here to help make sure your facilitation experience is meaningful for you and your group participants.
First Steps
- Meet with your co-facilitator and your Foothills Wellspring Leadership Team mentor. Your mentor will be an experienced Foothills Wellspring facilitator who will serve as a resource, sounding board and cheerleader for you and your co-facilitator throughout the year.
- Go to the UUWellspring website and complete the Wellspring Facilitator Registration form under Facilitator Registration. Register as a facilitator of "Love at The Center". Facilitator Registration Form
- Plan to attend one of UUWellspring's live online training sessions or view a recorded version. You can find the recorded 30-minute training video on their website under Resources > Tools for Facilitators.
- Become familiar with Planning Center Groups. A link to the Group Leader Introduction will be sent to you by the staff administration team once your group has been set up.
- Working with your co-facilitator, send a Welcome Letter to your group participants. Send this letter as soon as your group has been set up.
On-Going Meetings and Support
- Once your group has decided on its covenant, store the document in Planning Center Groups for member access and ongoing review.
- Once your group has decided on its meeting dates and you have secured a meeting location, schedule the events in Planning Center Groups.
- Remember to use Planning Center Groups to send out assignments and notices for each upcoming meeting and to take attendance after each meeting.
- Expect your mentor to check in with you periodically to offer support and help problem-solve if necessary.
Growing New Leaders
- Help develop the next generation of Wellspring Sources leaders. Encourage participants who demonstrate an aptitude for supporting group process and engagement to consider facilitating next year.
- Encourage participants to share their Wellspring experience with fellow congregants, to help identify congregants who might be interested in Sources next year, and to consider participating in second-year Wellspring offerings.
- Let your mentor know if you would like to be a part of the Foothills Wellspring Leadership Team.
Attend to Your Spiritual Life
Continue to tend to your spiritual life. As a facilitator, having a daily spiritual practice and working monthly with a spiritual director, spiritual companion, or spiritual friend continue to be expectations. We hope this year offers rich opportunities to grow and go deeper in your spiritual life as you help others in our community do the same.
See Also
Circles of Trust
Circles of Trust
Overview
The Circle of Trust model, developed by Parker Palmer, is foundational to UU Wellspring group practice. The core rule: "No fixing, no saving, no advising, no setting each other straight."
The Practice
"So what do we do in a circle of trust? We speak our own truth; we listen receptively to the truth of others; we ask each other honest, open questions instead of giving counsel; and we offer each other the healing and empowering gifts of silence and laughter. This way of being together is so countercultural that it requires clear explanation, steady practice, and gentle but firm enforcement by a facilitator who can keep us from reverting to business as usual. But once we have experienced it, we want to take this way of being into other relationships, from friendship and the family to the workplace and civic life."
Videos
- Chapter 4: Circles of Trust (4.5 min) - Parker Palmer from Hidden Wholeness
- Chapter 5: Establishing the Conditions of Circles of Trust (5.5 min)
- Circles of Trust in UU Wellspring (6.5 min)
Journal Prompt
What are the hallmarks of a circle of trust? According to Parker Palmer, what is the soul, and what can we do that might inhibit or welcome the soul? What are the obstacles to living an undivided life?
Further Reading
See Also
Required and Optional Books
Required and Optional Books
Sources Curriculum Books
All books are available from the UUA Inspirit Bookstore, online retailers, and as ebooks. Many are available in the Foothills library (room 221). If others have taken UU Wellspring at Foothills, they may have copies to lend.
Read Before the Retreat
- Everyday Spiritual Practice: Simple Pathways for Enriching Your Life, Scott Alexander, editor
Optional (Referred to Throughout the Program)
- Voices from the Margins edited by Jacqui James and Mark D. Morrison-Reed
- To Wake, To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilience edited by Rev. William Sinkford
Read Before Session 14
- Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker
Read Before Session 18
- Let Your Life Speak by Parker Palmer
Facilitator Resource
Participant Journal
- UU Wellspring Sources Reflection Journal (optional purchase for participants; ordered by WSLT as a welcome gift for new facilitators)
Second-Year Books
Book requirements vary by curriculum. Check UU Wellspring for the current list. Past second-year offerings have required:
- Faithful Practices: Everyday Ways to Feed Your Spirit edited by Erik Walker Wikstrom (Sacred Arts)
Book Discounts
Each June, WSLT contacts local bookstores for possible group discounts on required readings.
Spiritual Directors List
Google Doc: Original (.docx on Shared Drive) -- Last updated 2022
Status
The Spiritual Directors List is maintained as a Word document on the Shared Drive. It should be reviewed and refreshed annually as part of the January curriculum review.
Purpose
UU Wellspring encourages all participants to have a spiritual companion. Options include one-on-one spiritual direction, group spiritual companioning, or a spiritual friend. This list provides local options for participants seeking a spiritual director.
When to Share
- Included in Welcome Letter 2 preparation materials
- Referenced in the Quick-Start Guide for New Facilitators
- Discussed during the opening retreat
Administration
Forms and Links
Forms and Links
PCO Forms
- Sources Application Form -- Updated each March with facilitator-confirmed meeting times and retreat date
- Love at the Center Application (Admin) / Public
- Wellspring Interest and Nomination Form -- Used in April when grads nominate participants
- Serve Form -- For facilitator volunteers (select "Adult Spiritual Deepening")
Church Operations Forms
- Event Reservation and Promotion Form -- Submit at least 2 weeks before promotion begins. Used for retreat, Annual Gathering, enrollment promotion, coffee hour sessions, short-term groups.
PCO Groups
- Wellspring Sources Interest Group -- Remove members once they join a group
- Wellspring Second Year Interest Group
- Wellspring Leadership Team Members
External Resources
- UU Wellspring Website -- Curriculum, facilitator registration, training resources
- UU Wellspring Facilitator Registration Form
- UUA Inspirit Bookstore
Foothills Pages
Tracking
- Wellspring Sources Graduates List (Google Sheet)
Document Repository
Basecamp (Legacy)
- Wellspring Application Process Details -- Includes email templates for nominees and self-interested participants
See Also
PCO and Admin Tasks
PCO and Admin Tasks
Annual PCO Tasks by Month
March: Ask Admin Staff to update PCO People Wellspring Completion Dates in Profiles.
June: Church staff builds PCO groups for Sources and for any self-facilitating second-year offering, including adding events to event calendars.
June/July: Archive old Wellspring Groups in PCO Groups.
November/December: Staff builds PCO group for short-term offering.
Onboarding New WSLT Members in PCO
When new members join the WSLT:
- Add them as Wellspring PCO Group Type Managers in PCO Groups
- Ensure they are editors in PCO
- Grant access to PCO Forms
- Enable email sending permissions
Group Management
- When participants join a group, remove them from the Wellspring Sources Interest Group
- Track group attendance through PCO Groups
- Facilitators use PCO Groups to email members, plan events, take attendance, and share resources
- Group covenants can be stored in the PCO Groups website for member access
PCO Training Resources
New facilitators may need orientation to PCO. The Group Leader Introduction is sent by admin staff once a group is set up.
See Also
Sources Sessions
All 19 UU Wellspring Sources session plans, normalized with consistent heading structure and queryable metadata.
Session 1: Welcoming the Soul
Session 1: Welcoming the Soul
Session Metadata
| Session | 1 |
| Title | Welcoming the Soul |
| UU Source | Introduction |
| Unit | Foundation |
| Head / Hands / Heart | N/A |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | Covenant Creation |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Dear UU Wellspring Participants,
As we continue our UU Wellspring journey together, we will explore how we want to be together with one another and how we will create a bold space for each of us to listen to our own still small voice within. Together, we will work on a covenant that guides us in our group practices to create a bold space that allows us to have meaningful experiences together.
Parker Palmer, a Quaker who shares life lessons in books such as *Hidden Wholeness,*helps us understand that we create circles of trust to entice the shy soul to come forward. He writes, “Philosophers haggle about what to call this core of our humanity, but I am no stickler for precision. Thomas Merton called it ‘true self’ Buddhists call it ‘original nature’ or ‘big self.’ Quakers call it ‘the inner teacher’ or ‘the inner light.’ Hasidic Jews call it ‘a spark of the divine.’ Humanists call it ‘identity and integrity.’ In popular parlance, people often call it ‘soul.’” Palmer continues, “‘This is the first, wildest, and wisest thing I know,’ says Mary Oliver, ‘that the soul exists, and that it is built entirely out of attentiveness.’ But we live in a culture that discourages us from paying attention to the soul or true self-and when we fail to pay attention, we end up living soulless lives.” (excerpted from Hidden Wholeness, p. 33-35)
Additionally, Palmer writes: “Instead, I have met too many people who suffer from an empty self. They have a bottomless pit where their identity should be–an inner void they try to fill with competitive success, consumerism, sexism, racism, or anything that might give them the illusion of being better than others. We embrace attitudes and practices such as these not because we regard ourselves as superior but because we have no sense of self at all. Putting others down becomes a path to identity, a path we would not need to walk if we knew who we were.” He continues, “A strong community helps people develop a sense of true self, for only in community can the self exercise and fulfill its nature: giving and taking, listening and speaking, being and doing.
“A circle of trust, I said, has no agenda except to help people listen to their own souls and discern their own truth. Its purpose is not to help people recommit to a particular role or even become better at it, though one or both may happen. In a circle of trust, we practice the paradox of “being alone together,” of being present to one another as a “community of solitudes.” Those phrases sound like contradictions because we think of solitude and community as either-or. But solitude and community, rightly understood, go together as both-and. To understand true self–which knows who we are in our inwardness and whose we are in the larger world–we need both the interior intimacy that comes with solitude and the otherness that comes with community.” (excerpted from Hidden Wholeness, p. 38-39, 47, 53-54)
To prepare for our session focused on how we want to be together this year, please view these videos and journal your reflections.
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A short video by Julica Hermann De La Fuente on Covenanting in UU Wellspring. The reading referred to is: “We Covenant” by Janice Marie Johnson
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Chapter 1 (4 min) and Chapter 2**(4 min) Hidden Wholenessby Parker Palmer.
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Covenanting in UU WellspringNote that the video is almost 15 minutes long, and you need to build in extra time for journaling throughout the video. There are several pauses with journal prompts as well as directions to pause to read the next three documents.
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Bound in Covenant****by Rev. Victoria Safford
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**White Supremacy Culture document,**by Kenneth Jones and Tema Okun. Please pay particular attention to the antidotes. (for a deeper and more interactive look at these points check out THIS WEBSITE)
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“We Covenant” by Janice Marie Johnson in Quest.
As time permits over the next few sessions:
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Familiarize yourself with Widening the Circle of Concern**,**the work of the Commission on Institutional Changeand this interchange about LiberatingCovenants.
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“A Conversation on Covenant Creation: Article 2 Study Commission Panel”
Reflection Questions
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Parker Palmer has described the soul with a metaphor: the soul as a wild animal that needs to feel safe before showing itself– does that ring true to you?
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Parker Palmer also describes a life of wholeness, of living “divided no more.” Are there people you’ve known who have lived this way? What characteristics let you know that they lived undivided lives? What are the obstacles to living an undivided life? What are the risks?
You might want to review or expand on your responses to these questions that were part of the Covenanting in UU Wellspring Video.
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In anticipation of writing a covenant together, make a list of words that describe how you want to feel in this group. You might want to think about groups that worked well for you and think of what the group norms were that contributed to that feeling.
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What do you need in this circle to trust? If you find yourself writing some ideas for the covenant, please avoid jargon, for example, rather than saying “step back, step forward,” try writing it in a way that all will understand, such as “If you are speaking too much, listen more. If you are not speaking up, share your thoughts.”
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What will be most difficult for you in a circle of trust?
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What are the power differentials that you need to be aware of?
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What do you want to bring to the covenant discussion?
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What kind of confidentiality will you need in this group?
Spiritual Practice:
Also, a reminder to start/keep doing your spiritual practice. It’s easy to forget if you’re not in the habit, so we’ll be reminding each other throughout the year. If you haven’t made an appointment with a spiritual director, or spiritual companion, this would be a good time to do so.
Links for Spiritual Directors/Companions****Here is a link to the spiritual direction video you watched prior to the retreat in case you want to review it now. Below are some links for Spiritual Direction Resources. Please be aware that every spiritual director has different first-session protocols. Some offer a pro bono session and others a brief telephone conversation. Use bios from UUSDN.org or SDICompanions.org to get some of your questions answered in advance. Although you can contact a couple of spiritual directors, once you find one that you could be comfortable opening up to, there is no reason to continue contacting folks. A good fit may be the first person you contact! It is in the ongoing sessions that you will experience spiritual opening. If you want to explore the groups UU Wellspring has put together this year:
And if you are planning to work with a spiritual friend, please share this link with them to guide them in holding space for you.
- Video Link to send to a “spiritual friend” who might companion you.
Finally, as a reminder, please bookmark this link to our Zoom meeting: [link]
We recognize that the retreat and first session have a lot of intensive prework. Thank you for attending to these foundational pieces that will bring depth to your work together as a group.
I look forward to seeing you!
Session Plan
Note to Facilitator
Note to Facilitator: Please prepare for the next session by watching the important video from Julica Hermann de la Fuente on how we can use covenants to include rather than exclude full participation. Participants have a shortened video as prework, and the transcript is below. (You may also turn on closed captions.)
“Hello Friends,
My name is Julica Hermann De La Fuente. This short video is about covenanting. Thank you so much for agreeing to facilitate the UU Wellspring program. I hope that it is as powerful for you as it has been for me and I want to give us an opportunity to think a little bit more about what role does the covenant play in creating the container that’s going to give you the richest and deepest conversations possible in your groups.
Usually when Unitarian Universalist sit together to covenant, there’s a couple of things that are fairly common:
One, someone shows up with a list of agreements everyone looks it over they read it out loud. Maybe they take turns reading each bullet point. Everyone says fine, good let’s go.
Two, we assume that the people in the room are all the same and usually what that means is we assume that all the people in the room are white.
So ,when we say I’m going to take risks, that is a covenant that helps white people push themselves, But I have heard colleagues of color say I take risks every day !I need to pull back and take a rest. That’s the covenant that I’m making with myself. Similarly, when we say we assume good intentions, it means that we don’t want to take responsibility for how our comments or our behaviors land in the group because if I don’t mean anything by it then it shouldn’t have any impact. And that’s not true, of course, there is a gap between intention and impact sometimes. And so, an effective covenant will challenge us to attend to the impact of our communication rather than just the intention.
I think also it’s important to separate safety from comfort. Yes, it is important to create a fundamental container of safety and by that we mean a container where you can trust that other people will honor and respect your experience, will treat you with kindness, will hold your experience confidential. All of those things are important. But when we when we say, “therefore I always need to be comfortable, I always need to feel cozy,” then we are not creating enough space for us to challenge ourselves and to do the deep spiritual work that these programs are really preparing us to do.
So, as we look more deeply into what does that mean to feel safe versus comfortable, and when we focus on safety and separate it from comfort, we are able to be more authentic take more risks and go deeper together. And that is a powerful experience, because ultimately that’s what we’re trying to do: is to create a space where folx can say how it truly is with their heart, and with their souls. And that’s where the growth happens right. So, I encourage you to help your participants play with discomfort and curiosity. I encourage you to build bold spaces rather than focusing just on a comfort or safety and I hope that you find that sweet spot of learning that is somewhere in between total conflict avoidance and everything is safe. I’m not really going to say what I mean and pushing people so far that no one can participate because it just doesn’t feel risk, it just doesn’t feel safe enough to be that risky. So may you find that sweet space of learning and may your covenant support you in that process blessings on your groups and your facilitation and thank you again.”
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Also, be sure to watch the “Covenenting in UU Wellspring” video and respond to the journal prompts.
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You or a volunteer will read the covenant aloud regularly and refer to it as a living document. Read it through every time until you feel that no adjustments are needed to get started. Once you have confirmed the covenant as a group, there is a part of the session where you will be prompted to either ask if we need to review it, or occasionally, that we will read the entire covenant.
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Let’s light the chalice with our opening words from the retreat, then lean into ten minutes of music and silence to mark this moment, the start of our first circle, and to fully show up in this space.
“We begin by remembering the sound and the feeling of the one Being, the Wellspring of love. We affirm that the next thing we experience shimmers with the light of the Whole Universe.”
“We begin by remembering” is one translation of the Arabic word Bismallah, which is used at the beginning of prayer and from a translation by Neil Douglas-Klotz in The Sufi Book of Life.
Music Suggestion: “Calm Wind” (3 min 11 sec) by Peter B. Helland followed by silence.
Online Tip: Set up any videos in advance to remove YouTube ads or use a paid streaming account if you have access to one. You can also set up Zoom to play the music without the video by sharing your Zoom screen, choosing “Advanced” and “Share Computer Audio.” You’ll see a red and green bar at the top of your computer saying “sharing your computer sound.” Anything you play on the computer will then be heard by your group, even if you have your Zoom muted.
Check-In
For our check-in each week, you may speak as you feel ready; in other words, we won’t call on people. We will honor each speaker not with comments but with silence. In order to have some silence between each person speaking, we’ll take a few deep breaths after someone speaks before the next person starts.
The questions we will answer every week are:
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What are you carrying in your heart?
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How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Reflection
Usually our reflection time will be at least half of our session. This session will share the reflection time with time devoted to creating our covenant as a foundation for our future discussions. Creating the covenant after a couple of times together is fruitful in knowing a little more about each other.
Please note that today and in every session, if I’m not asking the right questions, answer the questions you need to answer.Parker Palmer suggests we take notes on what arises internally, rather than on what other people say – we’re trying to find our own truth. Feel free to use your UU Wellspring journal to keep notes on your continued reflections, both before and during each session.
Reflection Questions (The following questions should not all be asked – they are samples from which you can select a few.)
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Parker Palmer has described the soul with a metaphor: the soul as a wild animal that needs to feel safe before showing itself– does that ring true to you?
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Parker Palmer also describes a life of wholeness, of living “divided no more.” Are there people you’ve known who have lived this way? What characteristics let you know that they lived undivided lives? What are the obstacles to living an undivided life? What are the risks?
Break
Covenant Creation
**Note to Facilitators:**Please be sure to watch the “Covenenting in UU Wellspring” video and respond to the journal prompts yourself. Facilitate the covenant creation process by talking with the group about the importance of taking time to create a covenant for your group since you will be meeting over the course of most of a year and so we want to create sacred space that allows for our shy souls to emerge.
Option 1: If You Already Worked on the Covenant at the Four Hour Retreat Begin Here: (35 min)
Say: At this first session after the retreat, it is a good idea to spend some time revisiting the covenant conversation. The practice of listening without responding is often a struggle for many participants. People want to connect, and that is usually done through words of affirmation. But in UU Wellspring, silence is how we honor each other’s truth. This can be challenging for many people.
Note: Along with the covenant as written so far, it will be helpful to revisit the conversations you had around the covenant during the retreat. Because we are approaching covenant a little differently, there may be some questions or concerns.
“We began writing our covenant at our opening retreat. Let’s look at where we started and continue this work, keeping in mind that we are invested in creating a covenant that works for everyone and includes opportunities for reconciliation.”
Note that our UU Wellspring covenant includes Parker Palmer’s suggestion of “no fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.” We will also include, “We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm..”
Encourage people to notice how their soul is showing up or what is scaring it away. Make space for the hard conversations, and remind participants that this doesn’t have to be finalized today; this conversation can and will be ongoing.
Continue the Deep Work of Covenanting
Continue working on the draft and if needed, invite a volunteer or two to work on a final draft rather than wordsmithing as a group. When you review the covenant in Session 2, you can review the covenant and make amendments then.
Option 2: If this is the First Time You Will be Talking about Covenant Begin Here (35 min)
If you are online, and this is your first time covenanting, follow this process
Open a document that you will share during the covenanting session that includes:
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No fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.
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We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm.
Say: We will begin our covenanting process by sharing the feeling words that you wrote in your journals. How do you want to feel?
Ask participants to write the words or phrases in the chat.
Once finished, ask one person to read all of the words and phrases in the chat aloud.
Invite each person to write what they need in order to trust this group in the chat. When they are finished, ask someone to read the words and phrases aloud.”
“As you heard in the video, our UU Wellspring covenant will include Parker Palmer’s suggestion of “no fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.” We will also include, “We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm.”
Reveal the covenant by sharing your screen with a shared document that has the following already on it:
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No fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.
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We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm.
Next ask someone to suggest an idea for the covenant based on the feeling and trust words and phrases. Encourage comments and add it as a draft statement to the covenant. Add the phrases as people share them. If you want everyone to be able to write directly on the document, you will need to use a Google doc, or a shared document of some sort, share the link in the chat and have each person open the document on their own device. Make sure you have given editing rights to anyone who has thelink. They will not be able to write on the shared document through zoom (Advanced users can use the whiteboard feature.)
Encourage people to notice how their soul is showing up or what is scaring it away. Make space for the hard conversations, and remind participants that this doesn’t have to be built and completed today; this conversation can and will be ongoing.
Once you have discussed and have a list for a draft covenant, encourage the group to think about it until the next session. Perhaps you can share the link for a google document in your next email.
Continue the Deep Work of Covenanting
In the next few sessions when you revisit the covenant, continue to revise and eventually ask one or two volunteers to meet and finalize the draft, which they can bring to the next session for consensus or discussion. This could be now or several sessions in the future.
If you are in person, and this is your first time covenanting, follow this process
“We will begin our covenanting process by sharing the feeling words that you wrote in your journals. How do you want to feel?
Ask participants to write the words or phrases they wrote in their journals on sticky notes for people to add to chart paper, a smooth surface such as a wall, or a white board. Once finished, ask one person to read all of the words and phrases aloud.”
Use the stickies again for each person to write and post on the chart near the feeling words that they most need from this group to trust. Tell them this is not an exact process and they can move the feeling and trust stickies around. Once all of the feeling words and needs for trust words and phrases have been posted and initial movement has occurred, read aloud the groupings.
“As you heard in the video, our UU Wellspring covenant will include Parker Palmer’s suggestion of “no fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.” We will also include, “We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm.”
Post flip chart paper or use a white board to capture ideas for the covenanting session that includes:
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No fixing, no advising, no saving, no setting each other straight.
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We will pause and explore when we observe behavior that causes harm.
Next ask someone to suggest an idea for the covenant based on the feeling and trust words and phrases. Encourage comments and add it as a draft statement to the covenant.
Encourage people to notice how their soul is showing up or what is scaring it away. Make space for the hard conversations, and remind participants that this doesn’t have to be built and completed today; this conversation can and will be ongoing.
Once you have discussed and have a list for a draft covenant, encourage the group to think about it until the next session. Perhaps you can share the link for a google document in your next email.
Continue the Deep Work of Covenanting
In the next few sessions when you revisit the covenant, continue to revise and eventually ask one or two volunteers to meet and finalize the draft, which they can bring to the group for consensus or discussion. This could be at the next session or several sessions in the future.
So What?
We will end every session by thinking about what we are called to do in the world as a result of the readings and reflection. What does this reflection call you to do? In our circle? In your ministry? In your life?
Gratitude and Closing
Invite everyone, as they are moved, to say one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.”
Session 2: Everyday Theology
Session 2: Everyday Theology
Session Metadata
| Session | 2 |
| Title | Everyday Theology |
| UU Source | Direct Experience |
| Unit | 1st Source: Direct Experience |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
I so appreciated our first session together! Thank you for sharing and for listening. For our next meeting on [date], we’ll be talking about the first source of Unitarian Universalism:
Direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life.
Before our session, please read the following:
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“Holy Now” Peter Mayer. Lyrics can be found here.
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“Primal Reverence” by Rev. Kendyl Gibbons (long but worth it)
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“Things Commonly Believed Among Us” by William Channing Gannett
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“Everyday Theology” by Sara Smalley.
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If you have To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilience edited by William G. Sinkford, read Gretchen Haley’s “Change my Heart” (p. 5).
Also use your UU Wellspring journal to reflect on the following questions:
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As you read the above, note quotes and ideas that especially resonate with you. How do those ideas help you see your life more clearly?
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If you had access, what feelings arose in you when reading about Gretchen Haley’s experience in the Denver Women’s Prison? Or, if you listened to “Holy Now,” Peter Meyer sings about how his view on spirituality changed from when he was a child. How do you embody spirituality now?
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What does everyday theology mean to you? What is your everyday theology?
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Is there a Unitarian Universalist theology? What binds us together as a faith community?
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What does “direct experience of transcending mystery and wonder” mean to you? Is it a part of your daily life? Should it be? Or is it powerful because it’s rare?
You might want to check in to the UU Wellspring Facebook********Pagefor Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community.
Looking forward to seeing you all!
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our openings words are “What Song” by Rev. Victoria Safford.
“What if there were a universe in which a world was born out of a smallish star, and into that world (at some point) flew red-winged blackbirds, and into it swam whales, and into it came crocuses, and wind to lift the tiniest hairs on naked arms in spring when you run out to the mailbox, and into it at some point came onions, out of soil, and came Mount Everest, and also the coyote we’ve been seeing in the woods about a mile from here, just after sunrise in these mornings when the moon is full?… And into that world came animals and elements and plants, and imagination…”
If such a universe existed and you noticed it, what would you do? What song would come out of your mouth, what prayer, what praises, what sacred offering, what whirling dance, what religion, and what reverential gesture would you make to greet that world, every single day that you were in it?
You might choose to play music during part of the meditation. One suggestion is “Everything Is Holy Now” by Peter Meyer or Carrie Newcomer’s “I Believe.” Please set it up in advance to move past ads. You can play “Audio Only” by going to the share screen, choose “Share Computer Sound” in the bottom left, “Advanced” at the top of the screen and “Music or Computer Sound Only.” Then begin the video or audio on your computer.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
For facilitators: Again, this is a good time to reassure your group that, with time, silence during UU Wellspring meetings will start to feel less and less awkward and more and more sacred. Encourage participants to be their natural selves, looking into the center or at the participants, but not to respond verbally.
You may want to remind participants that this is a SPIRITUAL check-in, not about one’s life in general.
What are you carrying in your heart? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
For facilitators: Based on your group, you might choose to read the covenant regularly or share it in some way. There may be times this feels unnecessary, but it offers participants a chance to address any concerns before they become bigger problems.However, if it becomes rote, with no response, you may want to visit it less regularly.
Have copies of the covenant for everyone in the group so you can either refer to it or read it together.
Anything about the covenant that we should address?
Reflection
Today we’re talking about the first source of Unitarian Universalism. I just want to give you a heads up that next week we’ll be talking more in-depth about our spiritual journeys, so know that we don’t have to cover everything today!
The first source is:
Direct**experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life.
Some possible reflection questions:
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As you read the above, note quotes and ideas that especially resonate with you. How do those ideas help you see your life more clearly?
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What feelings arose in you when reading about Gretchen Haley’s experience in the Denver Women’s Prison? (From TWTR if. you had it) or listened to “Holy Now?” How have you embodied spirituality?
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What does everyday theology mean to you? What is your everyday theology?
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Is there a Unitarian Universalist theology? What binds us together as a faith community?
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What does “direct experience of transcending mystery and wonder” mean to you? Is it a part of your daily life? Should it be? Or is it powerful because it’s rare?
So What?
What does this reflection call you to do? In our circle? In your life?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.”
Session 3: Spiritual Histories
Session 3: Spiritual Histories
Session Metadata
| Session | 3 |
| Title | Spiritual Histories |
| UU Source | Direct Experience |
| Unit | 1st Source: Direct Experience |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Hands |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
***Note to Facilitator:*Before sending email note that the amount of time each participant will get to share their spiritual histories depends on how many people are in your group. The “ten minutes” referenced in this email and in the session plan assume a group of eight; if you have more or fewer participants, change the time accordingly by dividing 80 minutes by the total number of people in your group.
Email to Participants
**Tips for online.**Make sure your settings allow for participants to share their own screen in case they want to share photos, a video, or text with the group. Add this information to the email so participants know what to expect.
Our next session on [date] offers us a chance to take the ideas we talked about during our last session and apply them to our own lives. There are no books or articles as homework this time, just the invitation to “read” your own life, inspired by our first UU source:
Direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life.
During the session, you’ll be given [ten] minutes to present your spiritual journey in any way you choose. It may be through talking about your religious homes, or a few major turning points in your journey, or through thematic questions that you’ve tried to address. Feel free to bring any pictures, artwork, objects, music and/or video if that helps you to share your spiritual journey.
In preparation for this sharing, use your UU Wellspring journal to reflect on these questions:
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How would you describe the sacred text of your life — the main characters, important scenes, recurring themes?
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What peak spiritual experiences have you had? What spiritual struggles have you faced?
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How has religion been a part of your life? What do you want to let go of from your religious past? What do you want to carry forward?
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Where does your journey seem to be taking you and how might UU Wellspring be a part of the next steps on your path?
Clearly, those are some pretty big questions. Remember, you’ll have [ten] minutes to talk about your spiritual journey. That is enough time to tell much of your story, but not nearly enough time to answer all of the above questions. Focus on what feels most important for you to share with us.
But you don’t need to be done with these questions just because of the time limit of our session. These questions can be very helpful as a starting point with your spiritual director. Use your time with your spiritual director to go more deeply into your answers and see what other questions arise.
It will be good to be together again and hear one another’s stories! If you feel called, share some highlights of your story (or pictures) on the UU Wellspring Facebook****Page and our Instagram page by searching for UU Wellspring. Please follow us for regular inspiration from our programs.
In Faith,
(Name(s) of Facilitator(s)
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Today we are continuing to connect with the first source of UUism, which is:
Direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life.
UUA
Our opening reading is “Love After Love” by Derek Wolcott. If you prefer to have words and visuals, the poem with subtitles is found here on YouTube. We aren’t adding music today since we want to reserve the time for sharing.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
***Note to Facilitators:*At this point in the year, be prepared for participants to have questions about how much silence to share. Reassure them that this discomfort is normal and will work itself out over time. This can be especially difficult if someone has a very emotional check-in (or an emotional spiritual history during this session). It’s hard to sit by silently and watch someone cry! But the silence that is at the core of true listening can hold much more pain and emotion than our words can; encourage your group to leave room in the circle for that kind of listening to happen.
Note that it is not required to stare into the center of the circle. Many groups prefer to gaze at one another as part of being present during their deep listening. Various forms of nonverbal, nonphysical expression can be a natural part of deep listening.
Check-In
Today’s session will be slightly different than others. In order to make sure we have enough time for everyone to share their spiritual histories, we are going to shorten our check-in time slightly — but it’s still important we share how our spiritual life is going! Please briefly check in about your spiritual practice and spiritual direction.
Reflection
Note to Facilitators: Divide the time available by the number of people in the group. An electronic timer is very useful — allow the sound of the timer to remind someone their time is up instead of you having to cut them off. Some people appreciate a “one minute warning” so they know to start wrapping up. Be sure to leave silence in between each speaker as well.
*Your job this session (as always) is to protect the process. Make sure everyone has the opportunity to share their story in a safe and loving space. Do not let this run into the next session.*If you have extra time after everyone has shared, ask the group:
- What new insights do you have about your own story now that you have heard others’?
So What?
What does thinking about your own spiritual history and hearing from others call you to do in the world?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Session 4: Prophetic Voices of Our UU Ancestors
Session 4: Prophetic Voices of Our UU Ancestors
Session Metadata
| Session | 4 |
| Title | Prophetic Voices of Our UU Ancestors |
| UU Source | Prophetic Women and Men |
| Unit | 2nd Source: Prophetic Women and Men |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
It was wonderful to hear everyone’s spiritual histories at our last session! Keep being the theologian of your own life, keep doing your spiritual practice, and carry that ever-deepening “direct experience of transcending mystery and wonder” forward into our reflections about the next UU source:
Words and deeds of prophetic people which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
UUA
Prophetic people. Words and deeds. Justice, compassion, love. There is much here to think about!
At our next session on [date], we’ll hear the prophetic voices of some of our Unitarian and Universalist ancestors. You’ll find highlights of Unitarian and Universalist history and many options to extend your reading. The list below is long, so choose one (or more) from each section. The goal is your reflection on our heritage, rather than feeling the need to read or view every piece in this extensive collection.
Unitarian and Universalist History
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A 2021 UUA Brochure of Values in our Unitarian and Universalist history.
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The very short “Universalism in America” section of this online pamphlet.
Unitarians
We’ll learn about Francis David and Michael Servetus, two Unitarian heretics from the time of the Inquisition and Reformation. We’ll also be introduced to the remarkable women of the Iowa Sisterhood, a group of Unitarian women ministers from the late 1800s; the persistence of Ethelred Brown, a Unitarian minister from Jamaica; and Frances Ellen Harper, an abolitionist and women’s rights activist and writer. Also highlighted is a sermon by Rev. Jen Crow, UU Wellspring’s founder.
16th Century Unitarians
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Video history of Michael Servetus (6 min)
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Francis David video “A Moment in History,“ (2008, 6 1/2 min)
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“What Would Francis David Do?“ (PDF) “What Would Francis Do?” (Audio Recording) by Rev. Kelly Dignan, a humorously presented overview of Francis David and the 450 year old Edict of Torda at UU Boulder, 2018. (20 min). Sermon text included by permission.
19th and 20th Century Unitarians
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A description of the Iowa Sisterhood and a short introduction to two of its leaders,Eleanor Elizabeth Gordon and Mary Augusta Safford.
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“We Are All Bound Up Together: Frances Ellen Watkins Harper” by Kenny Wiley. Harper fought for abolition and women’s rights as a gifted writer and activist.
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“Egbert Ethelred Brown Papers 1914-1956. NY Public Library Archives. Optional Extension: Learn more about**Ethelred Brown’s** pathway to Unitarian Ministry on pp 50-52 and 64-68 of Rev. Dr. Mark Morrison Reed’s Darkening the Doorways, which would be an excellent full read to understand the historical role of important UU leaders of color.
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**Sophia Lyon Fahs**was a key contributor to Unitarian religious education and she was ordained in 1957 in “recognition of her lifetime contribution to the liberal religious movement.”
Universalists
The beauty of our Universalist heritage is that God loves all of us. The early Universalists were also Protestants and differed from their neighbors primarily in their belief that God’s love will lead to eternal salvation for all (give or take, with some controversy about exactly how this would happen). You didn’t need to be chosen, blessed, or act in a certain manner, but rather you were loved and therefore saved. We honor this as one of the places where UUism emerged.
The Bible may at times hold inspiration, beauty, as well as challenges for Unitarian Universalists. Early Universalists upheld the Bible as prophetic and read the Bible to say that God is a loving God, providing salvation to all. While it is true that the Bible has been used to justify shame and violence over the centuries, our Universalist heritage shows us there is another way: the God of radical, inclusive love.
19th and 20th Century Universalists
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“Christian Charity: A Doctrinal Sermon for Universalists” (Try for the first 2-3 pages–this is a historical sermon from 1872.)
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Rev. Dr. Natalie Fenimore preaches on Universalism through the story of Thomas Potter, John Murray and Judith Murray in “What of Thomas Potter?“, at First UU Houston in 2020. (start at 20:54 to view photos of the Thomas Potter Chapel with piano music by Mark Vogel. Sermon begins at 23 min and ends at 37:40)
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“Why Universalism?” by Rev. Carl Gregg touches on Universalist ancestors John and Judith Murray, Hosea Ballou, Clara Barton and several early presidents in their interactions with John Murray.
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“In Cupped Hands” by Rev. Jen Crow (21 minutes). This enjoyable sermon lifts up Universalism in our lives today.
Also, in preparation for our next gathering, please reflect on these questions:
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Which prophetic voice(s) from the readings was most inspiring or interesting to you? Why? What lessons does their life still teach?
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What did these Unitarian ancestors gain by telling the truth no matter what? What did they lose? Does being a prophetic voice always come with such a high price to pay?
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Choose a quote from the Universalist tradition, such as “Love the hell out of this world?” from Rev. Gregg’s text and reflect on how it resonates with your life.
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The Rev. Dr. Fenimore asks if Unitarian Universalist are living Universalist principles of embracing everyone. What are your thoughts?
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How are these ancestral voices affecting your journey to live a life of meaning?
OPTIONAL: If you are interested and have time to learn more about Unitarian Universalist history in the United States, a very accessible book is Rev. John Buehren’s Unitarians and Universalists in Americaor reviewing a broader history, visit the UUA Unitarian and Universalist history website and the booklist of the Unitarian and Universalist Historical Society.
And if you are still intrigued by UU history, one extensive resource is the Dictionary of Unitarian and Universalist Biography. You may find the readings and videos in this section too extensive for this session.
I look forward to seeing you all!
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our opening words are from the Gospel of Thomas:
“If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”
Today’s music is “Samuel Barber’s “Adagio for Strings.”
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Reflection
For this session, we’ll move from our personal spiritual journeys to the journeys of our Unitarian ancestors, and from the first source to the second. The second source states that UUs draw religious inspiration from:
Words and deeds of prophetic people which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
UUA
The history of both Unitarianism and Universalism is filled with prophetic voices! But before we turn to our reflection questions, let’s talk a little about Unitarian history.
What threads did you notice in the readings? What surprised you?
**Note to Facilitators:**Although this is not meant to be a “history lesson,” participants can develop a basic understanding of why people such as Michael Servetus and Francis David are such important prophetic voices from Unitarian history. Often, people understand how radical the Iowa Sisterhood was, but sometimes have a harder time understanding how radical the idea of Unitarianism was during the Reformation.
Also ask some of the following questions:
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Which prophetic voice(s) from the readings was most inspiring or interesting to you? Why? What lessons does their life still teach?
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What did these Unitarian ancestors gain by telling the truth no matter what? What did they lose? Does being a prophetic voice always come with such a high price to pay?
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Choose a quote from the Universalist tradition, such as “Love the hell out of this world?” from Rev. Gregg’s text and reflect on how it resonates with your life.
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The Rev. Dr. Fenimore asks if Unitarian Universalist are living Universalist principles of embracing everyone. What are your thoughts?
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How are these ancestral voices affecting your journey to live a life of meaning?
Some possible main ideas to convey:
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The Nicene Creed became a doctrinal statement of belief in 325 AD. This became the official Christian creed; anyone who lived in regions where Christianity reigned and who disagreed with the Nicene Creed could be labeled a heretic — a label that could be punishable by death.
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Michael Servetus studied the New Testament and found there was no proof of the Trinity (God as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Thus he believed in a UNI-tarian (not trinitarian) God. As a Unitarian, he believed Jesus was God’s human son, not a part of the Trinity.
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By doing so, Servetus brought his own intellect to bear on religious ideas. He questioned religious authorities and changed the course of the Reformation with his thinking and writing.
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Like Servetus, Francis Daviddid not believe religious doctrines were infallible and unchanging. He modeled open conversations about religious beliefs and helped to convince King John Sigismund to issue the first broad decree of religious freedom in Europe (the Edict of Torda,1568). Francis David is credited with the phrase, “We need not think alike to love alike.”
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Both Servetus and David were convicted of heresy and became martyrs for their beliefs.
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Frances Ellen Watkins Harperwas a household name in the 19th century and published the first short story by an African American woman. She was also an activist, fighting for the rights of women and the rights of Black Americans. The first symposium held by Black Lives UU (BLUU) was named in her honor.
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At the same time, don’t let the amazing women of the Iowa Sisterhood get overshadowed by the historical drama of heresy and martyrs. You might bring up the idea that Mary Augusta Safford worked to help her congregations be the kind of religious communities in which individuals could evolve together “in the spirit of love and helpfulness.” This prophetic imperative from the 1800s to fill our congregations with compassion and connection impacts lives even today.
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Session 5: Prophetic Voices of Today
Session 5: Prophetic Voices of Today
Session Metadata
| Session | 5 |
| Title | Prophetic Voices of Today |
| UU Source | Prophetic Women and Men |
| Unit | 2nd Source: Prophetic Women and Men |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Hands |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | Lectio Divina |
Preparation
**Note to Facilitator:**This session includes bringing prophetic witness to the issue of social justice. Since this is such a huge, complicated, and personal topic, please spend some extra time thinking through how you will approach this session. Reflecting ahead of time on your own personal anxieties, concerns, and hopes for this session is vitally important in order to create a brave, sacred space for everyone in your group. Everyone may have a call, for some direct action, for others it will be indirect.
Also note that the session includes a Lectio Divina opportunity where you will read a poem three times. You will want to leave about ten minutes for this right before the closing.
Email to Participants
In our last session, we explored our UU faith heritage and heard the prophetic voices of some of our Unitarian ancestors, as we reflected on our second source:
Words and deeds of prophetic people which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
For our next session on [date], we will continue exploring our second UU source as we hear from some modern prophets. Our second source recognizes that new voices can transform our hearts and our faith tradition and challenge us to create a more just world. Like prophets of the past who were considered radical in their time (Iowa Sisterhood, Servetus, etc.), modern prophets do the (often unpopular) work of envisioning and calling forth a world that has never been. Prophets are often people whose individually articulated vision arises out of recognizing a larger community’s need for change. They often seem to be channeling a message moving through them but that did not begin with them and will not end there. Listening to and being exposed to words and deeds of prophetic people helps us more deeply understand our faith and see what is possible.
Systemic poverty, racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia (and all the ways the dominant culture tries to marginalize entire groups of people) are so deeply entrenched in our society and minds. It can feel impossible to imagine a world without them and incredibly overwhelming to confront these evils directly, but that is what these prophets and our faith call us to do. As Unitarian Universalists, it is core to our theology that everyone has inherent worth, that no one is excluded, that we all have a voice. And we affirm that it matters as much what we do with our lives as what we believe.
We acknowledge there are as many prophetic voices that call us to seek and create justice as there are systems of oppression functioning in our world. It is not our task to do a comprehensive review of all of these- that is far too much for one session. Our main task in this session will be to listen to the wisdom of a few contemporary prophetic voices imagining and calling for justice, to invite this wisdom into our hearts, and to consider its power to challenge or affirm our way of being and transforming our world.
You may be recognizing your own barriers to public witness and activism, even as we are inspired by these vocal prophets. Remember to honor your daily acts of kindness and compassion as well as the larger movements you will explore today. As you learn about these activists, you might want to give thanks or honor their work as part of your own spiritual practice. All acts of kindness and witness can be honored.
Read or watch some of the selections below that you anticipate will challenge you the most. You might choose to seek out a prophetic voice that is not represented below. As you read, imagine yourself in the 1960s listening to Dr. Martin Luther King’s “I Have A Dream” speech for the first time and how revolutionary and unimaginable his vision might have seemed then. Perhaps the visions articulated by these modern prophets seem as impossible now as Dr. King’s did then! But with the work of hands and the change of hearts and minds, so much becomes possible.
Articles
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Defund the Police: UU Minister and President of the UUA 2018- 2024, Susan Frederick Gray (UU Voice) in a letter to white UUs.
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Gender Queering: Alex Kapitan (UU Voice)
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My Role in a Social Change Ecosystem Deepa Iyer
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“An Unshakeable Desire: Profile of Dr. Glenn Thomas Rideout”(2020)
Media
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Detention at the Border: Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez
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Post-Covid Equity (2 min) Addressing Injustice Require Moral Action (21 min):Bishop William Barber
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Gun Violence: Emma Gonzalez
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Climate Change: Greta Thornberg
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Ending Money Bail: Robin Steinberg
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“Love Calls Us On” by Rev. Dr. Bill Sinkford (UU Voice), delivered at 2016 General Assembly. Note the sermon begins at 1 hour 26 minutes.
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Valarie Kaur’s speechat the National Moral Revival Poor People’s Campaign Watch Night Service, Dec. 31, 2016
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“The Mysteries of Banksy” CBS Sunday Morning Aug 13, 2023.
Reflection Questions
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What strategies are these modern prophets using to paint their visions?
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What risk are each of the speakers taking?
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How is it a faithful act to trust in prophets?
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How do they inspire us?
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How do they challenge us?
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Do you feel a call to action? And if so, is it direct or as Iyer points out, there are many indirect ways to support justice.
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What is one idea that seemed prophetic when you were a child that is actually true or possible today?
In faith,
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our opening words are “Prayer for Living in Tension” by Rev. Joseph M. Cherry. Printed by permission of the author. You might choose to replace “step into our discomfort” with the more inclusive “move into our discomfort.”
If we have any hope of transforming the world and changing ourselves, we must be bold enough to step into our discomfort, brave enough to be clumsy there, loving enough to forgive ourselves and others.
May we, as a people of faith, be granted the strength to be so bold, so brave, and so loving.
“Prayer for Living in Tension” by Joseph M. Cherry
Today’s music is “I Am Light” by India Arie.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Note to Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
**Note to Facilitators:**No spiritual practice presentation since lectio divina will be held at the end of the session as a group spiritual practice.
Reflection
Note for Facilitators: There are two parts to the reflection time for this session:
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First, your group will share responses to the reflection questions like a standard UU Wellspring session.
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Second, the group will reflect on one short reading in the style of lectio divina (a full explanation of this process is included in the session plan below). This practice embodies the belief that every voice is equal and ensures the focus of this session is on listening.
Use the lectio divina part of the session as you see fit. If your group is going deep with the questions, spend extra time there. If your group starts debating or if the conversation becomes disrespectful, move into lectio divina earlier.
Today we are continuing our reflection on the second source of UUism:
Words and deeds of prophetic people which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
UUA
Reflection Questions
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What strategies are these modern prophets using to paint their visions?
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What risk are each of the speakers taking?
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How is it a faithful act to trust in prophets?
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How do they inspire us?
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How do they challenge us?
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Do you feel a call to action? And if so, is it direct or as Iyer points out, there are many indirect ways to support justice.
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What is one idea that seemed prophetic when you were a child that is actually true or possible today?
Lectio Divina
Lectio Divina /lLECK-TEE-OH Dah-veen-ah/ is historically a Christian monastic tradition of reading verses of the Bible multiple times with the intention of deeper understanding and unity with God. Thomas Cramner in his “Homily on Scripture” described it as: “Let us ruminate, and, as it were, chew the cud, that we may have the sweet juice, spiritual effect, marrow, honey, kernel, taste, comfort and consolation of them.” www.anglicancommunion.org
Many people of faith as well as those who seek a spiritual connection use the process ofLectio Devina to ground and to either go within to touch their own spirit and/or to find a unity of spirit. Today we will employ our own process ofLectio Divina by listening to a poem read three times. I will first read aloud “Community Means Strength” by Starhawk as everyone listens.
I will read it aloud a second time and I invite you to note a word or phrase that speaks to you. I will share my screen so that if you want, you can follow along.
On our third reading, I invite you to focus on the word or phrase you chose and after this reading you will be invited to share the word or phrase with the group and briefly share how that word or phrase impacted you.
So What?
What is something that you are just now starting to believe is possible? What is helping you see this new way of being? Is it stories? Something getting unblocked?
Gratitude and Closing
After everyone has said a word, either of appreciation or if you read the Lectio Devina, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation. You might end with a protest song, such as “The Times They Are a Changing” by Bob Dylan or “Prison Trilogy (Billy Rose)” by Joan Baez.
Session 6: Your Own Prophetic Voice
Session 6: Your Own Prophetic Voice
Session Metadata
| Session | 6 |
| Title | Your Own Prophetic Voice |
| UU Source | Prophetic Women and Men |
| Unit | 2nd Source: Prophetic Women and Men |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Heart |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
For our next session on [date], we’re each going to listen to our own prophetic voice. We’ve heard about our Unitarian and Universalist ancestors and other prophetic voices telling new truths and from contemporary UUs about being fully, courageously themselves. Now it’s our turn to step up and see what it’s like if we take the second source to heart:
[My] words and deeds … challenge [others] to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
UUA
For some of us, thinking of ourselves as a “prophetic voice” might be empowering and thus inspire us to speak ever more loudly for justice. For others in our group, it might make us feel a little guilty that we don’t do nearly as much as we should, or it might even sound utterly ridiculous.
For those of us who identify with the latter, try this: think about “the structures of evil” in a significantly smaller way: Where is there emotional hurt or spiritual harm in your life? In your family, workplace or community? How could you confront that hurt and harm with the transforming power of love?
Before our next session, there are three short (and amazing!) videos to watch, reflection questions to write about in your UU Wellspring journal, and an experiment to try.
Media
(Note: you can click on the “interactive transcript” icon if you’d like to read along while watching)
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The first video challenges us to think about “vulnerability as the birthplace of joy, of creativity, of belonging, of love:” Brené Brown “On the Power of Vulnerability” (20 minutes)
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The second video is about using one’s voice to call forth justice: Clint Smith “The Danger of Silence” (5 minutes)
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The final video shares a theology for our times. “Homily” by Rev. Mariela Perez Simons (11 min video). Rev. Mariela Perez Simons provided the video to UU Wellspring.
Reflection Questions
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What most resonated with you in the Brene Brown video? How might you use her ideas in your own life?
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Clint Smith says, “I’m going to live everyday as if there were a microphone tucked under my tongue.” How would your life change if you did the same? What would you say more of? What would you say less of?
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How do we allow ourselves to see intense pain and injustice in the world without being overwhelmed by it? How do we remain open-hearted when it feels like our hearts are breaking?
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What powers and structures of evil do you see in daily life?
Exercise
Try looking for opportunities to be a prophetic voice. This does not have to be a huge, dramatic gesture! The challenge is to step outside of our regular comfort zones and act with vulnerability and courage.
Maybe you’ll call out an injustice at work or write a letter to the editor. Maybe you’ll attend a rally or workshop. Maybe you’ll speak up about a topic you often remain silent about.
Or maybe you’ll take the first step towards something you’ve been avoiding. Maybe this isn’t something that will be resolved in a day and you’ll discover a new avenue for action.
Or maybe you already dedicate your life to social justice work, and, all too often, come face-to-face with trauma or injustice. In that case, think about how being a prophetic voice of compassion in your own life might help you sustain your work. How might the transforming power of love bring hope and courage?
Notice what using your prophetic voice is like for you and come to our session ready to tell us about your experience.
I look forward to hearing about it!
And finally, in order to deepen our experience of spiritual practice as we journey together this year, each group member will be given the opportunity to lead a spiritual practice during a session. You are welcome to share a spiritual practice that has meaning for you or one that you’d like to try. You can keep track of who is presenting **with this calendar.**Some examples of spiritual practices include: -Nature meditation: 5-10 minutes of silence outside -Prayer: leading the group in prayer or each person writing a prayer -Movement: yoga poses, Tai Chi, Dance of Universal Peace, running, ecstatic dancing, swimming laps -Breathing exercises -Singing or listening to music -Journal writing -Meditation: sitting, walking, eating or moving -Meditation on a reading (poem, psalm, quotation) -Meditation on a work of art (painting, piece of sculpture, any handmade object) -Meditation on a natural object (stone, branch, seed pod) -Guided meditation recording -Art: draw or sculpt with clay an expression of your relationship with __ (fill in the blank) i.e., your spiritual practice, your relationship with trust, with prayer, your body, with the divine, etc.
Tips and things to consider: AMOUNT OF TIME: You have 5 to 10 minutes to lead this experience. Please plan accordingly in order to share your practice with us while also helping us ensure that we keep with the overall flow of the session.
INSTRUCTION: For most of these practices little instruction or words are usually necessary. The opportunity to go deeper within and get in touch with ourselves is what teaches.
With faith,
Session Plan
Note to Facilitator: Let people know that in the email for the next session they will be asked to email the facilitator(s) response to a few questions to offer participants the chance to weigh in on any concerns they have so your group can reset and refocus as needed. The questions are 1) What is working well? 2) What is not working well? 3) What would you like to change?
Second, often around this time of the year, participants struggle with wanting to get to know each other more. It can be very helpful (and fun!) to schedule a gathering such as a potluck (if you are together) or an online chat time so your group can spend some time simply chatting and laughing together. Groups that have done this have found it releases some of the pressure that builds up for people who struggle with not being able to cross-talk. They then are able to more fully engage in the silence and deep listening of future UU Wellspring sessions.
If your group chooses to do a gathering, it is important to find a date and time that works for everyone in the group. Anyone can be the online or in person host, but rather to make sure everyone is fully included.
Chalice Lighting and Silence
From p.37 Sources of Our Faith, edited by Kathleen Rolenz.
The first act of a prophet
is to hear one’s own first cry.
Desire is good
and longing is the first prayer.
Let us bless ourselves with knowing
and bless each other with words that are true.
Barbara Pescan, From Sources of Our Faith, edited by Kathleen Rolenz.
Today’s music is “Just Before Dawn” by William Ackerman.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
As the facilitator, please model the sharing of a spiritual practice for the group. If the practice is meditative, you may want to limit the meditation length at the start of the session.
Before I begin sharing my spiritual practice with you, let’s remind ourselves that our spiritual practices may also highlight the pluralism within our group. This means there are multiple, valid, complete religious paths and spiritual practices. My path and practices may feel valid and complete, and I encourage all of you to be open to all of the paths and spiritual practices as they are shared. Although it might feel vulnerable, we invite you to try out and share your spiritual practices when your turn comes, recognizing the sacred space we have created together.
Rev. Kelly Dignan says, “Unitarian Universalist minister Fred Muir writes in Turning Pointthat pluralism implies diversity, but it’s more than that. It’s more than tolerating difference. It’s engaging in the difference. We risk surfing the surface theologically if we don’t do the engaging part.
I look forward to engaging in the diversity of spiritual practices that we are all engaging in.
Reflection
**Note for Facilitator:**Encourage participants to respond to the feedback questions in the email for next session.
Today we’re reflecting on a slight rewrite of the second UU source:
My words and deeds … challenge [others] to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.
UUA
Reflection Questions
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Tell about your experience experimenting with your own prophetic voice. You’re invited to celebrate what went well and acknowledge what was difficult.
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What most resonated with you in the Brené Brown video?
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Clint Smith says, “I’m going to live everyday as if there were a microphone tucked under my tongue.” How would your life change if you did the same? What would you say more of? What would you say less of?
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Confronting “the structures of evil” starts with being willing to see profound injustice and intense pain. How do we keep an open heart when there is so much pain and injustice in the world? How does this make working for justice a spiritual struggle?
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What powers and structures of evil do you see in daily life?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Respond to Participant Feedback
**Note to Facilitator.**Please share a summary of your group’s feedback with UU Wellspring emailing:
Director@uuwellspring.org Or Send Hard copies to Linnea Nelson UU Wellspring 8848 Grey Hawk Point Orlando, FL 32836
Session 7: Solstice Ritual
Session 7: Solstice Ritual
Session Metadata
| Session | 7 |
| Title | Solstice Ritual |
| UU Source | Prophetic Women and Men |
| Unit | 2nd Source: Prophetic Women and Men |
| Head / Hands / Heart | N/A |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | Yes |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | Ritual |
Preparation
Note to Facilitator: If you are in the Southern Hemisphere, your Solstice celebration will be in June. If you are in the Northern Hemisphere your Solstice celebration occurs in December. Place this session accordingly.
Tip for Online Meeting: Some groups choose to skip this session if they are not able to meet in person. Instead you may choose to encourage participants to visit an online Solstice Ritual or create their own solstice ritual. However, those who have chosen to have a Solstice Session online have found it very meaningful. You might start out the session with lowered lights on everyone’s screen and when you discuss the light later, have everyone add light to their spaces.
Email to Participants
Dear Wellspring Friends
At our next session on [xx], we are going to celebrate the winter solstice, a holiday centered on the experience of darkness and the return of the light. After the inspiring intensity of our sessions so far, it will be good to take some time to let our souls catch up and simply be together.
In the northern hemisphere, this is the season of light: the growing light of the Solstice, the candles of the Menorah, the Kinara bright with seven lights, and the starlight showing the way to the newborn Jesus. Solstice, Kwanzaa, Christmas, and Hanukkah all celebrate with light. The winter solstice is the longest night of the year. It is a time to call to mind the blessings of darkness and feel the promise of returning light. Together we will celebrate the winter solstice. There are no readings for this session, just the invitation to bring something to share: a favorite poem, a piece of music, a photograph, a memory, or anything that your spirit is calling you to pay attention to.
As you think about what you might bring to share, spend some time reflecting on these questions and perhaps writing about them in your UU Wellspring journal.
If you are interested in Summer Solstice, view the workshop #618 from General Assembly 2020 on Summer Solstice.
Reflection Questions
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What meaning does the darkness carry for you? How is it a blessing? How does it challenge you?
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What sustains you in times of darkness?
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What holiday traditions have meaning for you?
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Why do you value them?
[If you are meeting online:] Please also bring a candle or something to light to keep nearby. You are also warmly invited to bring a favorite drink or holiday food. If we were together in person, this would be a time to share favorite foods and drink. Since we cannot do that this time, we will share over zoom what we are enjoying.
[If you are meeting in person:] There are no readings for this session, just the invitation to bring something to share: a favorite poem, a piece of music, a photograph, a memory, or anything that your spirit is calling you to pay attention to. As you think about what you might bring to share, spend some time reflecting on these questions and perhaps writing about them in your UU Wellspring journal.
Also, take a moment to sign yourself up for a session during which you’ll take ten minutes to share a spiritual practice with the group. Please let me know if you have questions about this or want to discuss further! [You might add a sign up link here.]
Also also, if you haven’t had a chance to yet, please take the time to email me with your responses to these questions before our next session. This is a chance to weigh in on any concerns they have so your group can reset and refocus as needed. Please cut and paste the questions below when you email me.
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What is working well?
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What is not working well?
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What would you like to change?
Blessings,
[your name]
Session Plan
Materials needed:
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Candles in holders — one for each group member including yourself (tea lights work fine)
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Decorations: greenery, sparkles, whatever makes the table look beautiful and festive
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Ability to share Solstice music (ideas listed below or choose your own)
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Flashlight (for reading in the darkness) if you are in person
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Small gifts for members – could be the candles (optional)
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Food to share or if online festive food or drink provided by each participant for themselves (optional)
**Facilitator Preparation:**In addition to the chalice, set up as many candles on the center table as there are people in your group. Light them, except the chalice, before people arrive. Turn off the rest of the lights in the room.
Add greenery, sparkles, whatever decorations you choose to make the table look festive. You may want to have small gifts or food to share with members of the group later in the ritual – something as simple as tangerines or chocolate.
Feel free to modify this session as you like – the goal is for you and your group to feel closer, more connected as a result of sharing stories and ritual. It’s a break from the hard work of reading history and theology, and a time to connect from the heart.
If your group meets during the daytime, think about trying to schedule a time for this ritual when it will be dark outside. Although it’s not absolutely necessary, it adds greatly to the ritual to have candles bringing back the light in the darkness.
Music suggestions:
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Lisa Thiel, “Yule” Note: this is a great song and perfect for Solstice, but it’s long; you may want to fade the music out after a couple of minutes instead of playing the whole thing.
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Winter Solstice III album “Of the Father’s Love Begotten”
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Will Ackerman, “Conferring with the Moon.”
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“Winter Solstice,” by Robert Mirabal from the album Pueblo Christmas.
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For closing:“Here Comes the Sun” by James Taylor/Yo-yo Ma
Chalice Lighting and Silence
(10 minutes)
We’ll take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this moment. Our opening words are from “Winter Solstice” by Rev. Dr. Rebecca Parker.
At this winter’s turning of the year let us go gently – for once – into the night, its dream-drenched, glittering stillness a haven for our souls. Let us breathe deeply and settle into this glittering stillness of darkness and light.
Rev. Dr. Rebecca Parker
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Ritual
Transition to the solstice ritual byextinguishing all candles except chalice*. (Lights in the room should already be off.)*
Begin: At this darkest time of the year, when the sun is farthest from us and the night is longest, we come together, as our ancestors have for generations, to honor both the darkness and the return of the light.
We start in darkness, with poetry and song. I’ll read the poem “Blessing for the Longest Night” by Jan Richardson, and then we will hear the song [song choice].
Blessing for the Longest Night
All throughout these months
as the shadows
have lengthened,
this blessing has been
gathering itself,
making ready,
preparing for
this night.
It has practiced
walking in the dark,
traveling with
its eyes closed,
feeling its way
by memory
by touch
by the pull of the moon
even as it wanes.
So believe me
when I tell you
this blessing will
reach you
even if you
have not light enough
to read it;
it will find you
even though you cannot
see it coming.
You will know
the moment of its
arriving
by your release
of the breath
you have held
so long;
a loosening
of the clenching
in your hands,
of the clutch
around your heart;
a thinning
of the darkness
that had drawn itself
around you.
This blessing
does not mean
to take the night away
but it knows
knows the resting spots
along the path,
knows what it means
to travel
in the company
of a friend.
So when
this blessing comes,
take its hand.
Get up.
Set out on the road
you cannot see.
This is the night
when you can trust
that any direction
you go,
you will be walking
toward the dawn.
Used by permission. © Jan Richardson. janrichardson.com
**Note to Facilitator.**Play music in the darkness. Use music suggested in facilitator notes or choose your own. When the music ends, say into the darkness:
This part of our ritual is a chance for us to talk about the blessings and the challenges of darkness. This is not yet the time to share what you have brought with you, but rather a chance to say out loud what this moment is bringing up for you. As you are so moved, I invite you to briefly share what darkness has meant to you:
When have you felt like you were most “in the darkness”? What challenges does darkness hold? What lessons does darkness teach?
After people have responded:
We now bring back the light. You are invited to tell us about what you brought to share with the group — a favorite poem, a piece of music, a photograph, a memory, or anything that your spirit is calling you to pay attention to.
After everyone has shared, if there is time, ask:
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How does your own life shine?
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This is the season of light: the light of the Solstice, the candles of the Menorah, Kwanzaa, the Christmas celebration of divine love being born into this world. But it can also be a season filled with stress and feelings of loss. What does this season mean to you?
So What?
How does this ritual relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. Closing words: May the true light within you guide you on your way. Play “Here Comes the Sun” and celebrate the return of the light.
Session 8: Jewish and Christian Teachings
Session 8: Jewish and Christian Teachings
Session Metadata
| Session | 8 |
| Title | Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| UU Source | Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Unit | 3rd Source: Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Our next session will be on concepts of both Jewish and Christian teachings.
At our next session on [date], we’ll start our reflection on this UU source:
Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves.
UUA
Unitarian Universalism was born in Christianity and Christianity was formed in the time of Judaism. In order to better understand how we embrace the Source today, we will be reading and hearing from more contemporary Jewish Unitarian Universalists and Christian Unitarian Universalists and how the Source affects their lives.
Jewish and Christian teachings are rooted in the Bible, yet there are questions about who wrote the Christian Bible and how much was actually written during the life of Jesus. The Hebrew Scriptures, or Tanakh, are composed of the Torah (the first five books of the Bible), Prophets, and Writings, also known as The Hebrew Bible. Christianity arose from Judaism, so we will begin with reading texts by and about Jewish Unitarian Universalists.
There are more readings and videos here than you likely have time to delve into. Choose some options from Judaism and some from Christianity as your time permits.
Readings on the Intersection of Judaism and Unitarian Universalism:
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“Tambourines and Teshuva” by Rev. Dana Olandt from Jewish Voices of Unitarian Universalist Voices. You can purchase this as an optional book:***Jewish Voices in Unitarian Universalism*****edited by Leah Hart Landsburg and Marti Keller, to read more stories at the intersection of Judaism and Unitarian Universalism.
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“Kindness to the Thousandth Generation” by Ana Levy-Lyons in UU World, March, 2020. Note that if you print this out, it has God’s name included, which is treated as a living being by Jewish people and thus should not be destroyed.
Optional Readings and Videos
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Learn about the theology of**Jewish Religious Holidays** found in the resource section of Unitarian Universalist Jewish Awareness.
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Unitarian Universalism and the Jewish Tradition, Rev. Chris Buice. (11 min 30 sec)
Readings on the Intersection of Christianity and Unitarian Universalism:
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“To Keep One’s Soul” by Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley found in Christian Voices of Unitarian Universalists. You can also purchase the optional book Christian Voices in Unitarian Universalism: Contemporary Essays edited by Kathleen Rolenz to read more stories at the intersection of Christianity and Unitarian Universalism. Permission granted by Rev. Dr. Clyde Grubbs, Bowen-Wheatley’s husband.
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“The Faith of our Christian Unitarian Universalists*,*”a pamphlet by Rev. Stephen Kendrick.
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“Trading Messiah for Mentor” various Unitarian Universalist views on Jesus.
- “Rev. Jake Morrill and Rev. Dr. Kelly Murphy Mason about Unitarian Universalist Christianity.” The VUU from Church of the Larger Fellowship #211. Begin with Jake Morrill at 9:15.
Optional Reading
- “Historical Sketch of Jesus” (part of a chapter) by Rev. Scotty McLennan fromChrist for Unitarian Universalists: A New Dialogue with traditional Christianity.
Reflection Questions
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What surprised you in these readings and videos?
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What is your personal connection to, or understanding of, Christianity and Judaism?
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Where do you see Christian or Jewish theology lifted up in Unitarian Universalism?
If you have not yet emailed your responses to the feedback questions below to me, please do so before our next session. This is a chance to weigh in on any concerns they have so your group can reset and refocus as needed. Please cut and paste the questions below when you email me.
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What is working well?
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What is not working well?
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What would you like to change?
Thinking of you all and looking forward to our time together!
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
My hope is that we always strive to see past the labels we tend to put on one another, that we avoid the “other-ing” we can easily slip into when we don’t see eye-to-eye theologically, and that we celebrate the essence of what we share in a tradition rich with dialogue and diversity steeped in an unshakable understanding of the inherent worth and dignity of all human beings, whatever their beliefs. Cricket Potter
Cricket Potter from the essay “Learning to Love the Questions” in Christian Voices in Unitarian Universalism: Contemporary Essays, Skinner House Books.
Today’s music is**Leat Sabbah,** Avinu Malkeinu (4 min 43 sec)
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant. Use this time to discuss any feedback that has been received (what in the group is working well/not working well/could be changed).
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
We’re starting our reflection on this UU source:
Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves.
UUA
Reflection Questions
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What surprised you in these readings and videos?
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What is your personal connection to, or understanding of, Christianity and Judaism?
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Where do you see Christian or Jewish theology lifted up in Unitarian Universalism?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation. Possible closing music: Spirit of Life as sung by the Orange County UU Choir.
Session 9: Reimagining God: Process Theology
Session 9: Reimagining God: Process Theology
Session Metadata
| Session | 9 |
| Title | Reimagining God: Process Theology |
| UU Source | Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Unit | 3rd Source: Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Hands |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Dear UU Wellspring friends,
For our next session on [date], we will be following the example of our Universalist ancestors by reimagining the concept of God. People like John Murray and Olympia Brown looked to scripture and found there not a God of judgment and damnation, but of love and inclusion. How might we, inspired by their vision, continue to reimagine God?
Within our group there will be diverse reactions to this word, God. For some, a belief in God might be close to their heart and inspire their spirit. For others, the word may be an outdated or divisive concept. Let’s see where this topic takes us.
As a starting point to our reimaging of God, we’ll be learning about process theology. Process theology seeks to integrate spirituality, philosophy, science, ethics, and more into a worldview that embraces our expanding knowledge of the universe. The God of process theology is radically different from traditional definitions:
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Instead of being omnipotent (having complete power), God in process theology is persuasive. God does not and cannot control the unfolding of the world or of individual actions. Rather, God acts as a “lure” toward the good, using relationship not coercion to open up possibilities and bring about wholeness.
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Instead of being perfect and immutable (never changing), God is constantly growing and evolving. The divine constants of love and connection never waiver, but God receives every experience and changes accordingly. Through our choices and our relationships, we are creating God as God is creating us.
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Instead of an emphasis on the separateness of God from the world, God is present in every moment and in all things, not just human beings. The universe is creative, dynamic and interconnected; what affects one affects all; everything matters.
Readings
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Key Ideas in “What exactly is process theology?”
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“Our Ultimate Canvas” by Rev. Gary Kowalski
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“All that You Are“ by Rev. Theresa Ines Soto
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Readhow Bobby McFerrin creates moments that embody process theology with an audience. An optional video, especially beginning at 57:00 shows McFerrin discussing his spiritual relationship to the audience.
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“What in the world is process theology?” from Theology Matters.
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“Wholly, Holy, Holy“ by Rev. Jen Crow
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“Cosmology and Mystery for a 21st Century Theology” by Rev. Dr, Matthew Johnson.
Media
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Regina Spektor, “Laughing with God”
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Lauryn Hill “Everything is Everything.”
Reflection Questions
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What in the readings particularly resonated with you? Challenged you?
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Does process theology relate to your own idea of God?
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Have you ever had the sense that you co-created with God?
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Does process theology embody and expand on the UU source of “Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves?”
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Have you experienced the God of process theology? If so, is there a story associated with this theology?
If you are interested in exploring this concept further through Science Fiction, Octavia Butler’s Parable of the Sower explores a created religion of**“Earthseed.**” This is optional and not part of the session, but might be of interest.
I’m looking forward to seeing you all!
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
As we consider that God may be present in everything, we will continue our exploration of the UU Source by responding to our thoughts through the ideas of Process Theology.
Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves.
UUA
Our opening reading is “**A Theology Adequate for the Night”**by Nancy Shaffer.
Today’s music is “The Oneness of Everything“ by Jim Scott.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
***Note to Facilitator:*Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant. Use this time also to talk about the feedback you have received (what in the group is working well/not working well/could be changed).
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
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What in the readings particularly resonated with you? Challenged you?
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Does process theology relate to your own idea of God?
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Have you ever had the sense that you co-created with God?
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Does process theology embody and expand on the UU source of “Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves?”
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Have you experienced the God of process theology? If so, is there a story associated with this theology?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation. If you would like to play music as people exit, you might play Karen Drucker’s “Face of God“
Session 10: Prayer
Session 10: Prayer
Session Metadata
| Session | 10 |
| Title | Prayer |
| UU Source | Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Unit | 3rd Source: Jewish and Christian Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Heart |
| Has Exercise | Yes |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | Exercise |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Our next session is on [date]. For the previous two sessions, we have focused on Jewish and Christian teachings and process theology — inspiring and also somewhat rigorous intellectual topics. For our next session, we are going to move from thinking about the concept of God to an experience of a spiritual practice inspired by Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God’s love by loving our neighbors as ourselves.
This spiritual practice is prayer. Prayer will have a different meaning and history for each of us. The goal for this session is for us to experience one way people reach out and reach in to touch divine love.
Readings
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“To Whom it May Concern“ by Rev. Jen Crow
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“Simply Pray” by Rev. Kimberley Debus
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“These Prayer Beads,” by Teri Ashley (UU Wellspring Facilitator)
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“Unitarian Universalist Views of Prayer” pamphlet
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Here are some links to a range of prayers to explore. You may have other favorites that you would like to reread.
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Prayers from African Americansin History
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World Peace Prayers-Buddhist****
Reflection Questions
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In the words of Sophia Lyon Fahs, Unitarian Universalist religious education visionary, “Many of the past generation and many today have found three abiding values in prayer: the quiet meditation on life, the reaching out toward the universal and the infinite, and the courageous facing of one’s profoundest wishes.” What is prayer for you?
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Tell about an experience you have had with prayer.
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How has your experience of prayer changed over the years? How has it been helpful or hurtful in your life?
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If you pray: How do you pray? Why do you pray? What role does prayer play in your life? If you don’t usually pray, did you experiment with prayer before this session? What was that experience like?
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If you pray, reflect on how you would answer the questions from the pamphlet on UU views of prayer: How do you pray? Why do you pray? What role does prayer play in your life?
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If you don’t pray, you’re invited to experiment with prayer if that sounds appealing to you. Notice how it feels to pray and reflect on that experience.
A reminder: if you haven’t ordered the book Heartwood: Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker, you may want to do so now so you have it in time to read for session fourteen. We recognize this author comes from a place of privilege, which she notes in the book. We continue to search for resources that fully meet the mission of UU Wellspring and that has a powerful message.
Also, check in to the UU Wellspring Facebook****Pagefor to share your prayers with the UU Wellspring Community. We also have a UU Wellspring Instagram page with quotes to inspire you!
In faith,
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
We start our session with an eight-word prayer written by a former UU Wellspring participant:
Help me; hear me; hold me; heal me.
Again: Help me; hear me; hold me; heal me.
UU Wellspring Participant
The music is “Have Mercy on Us (Khudaya, rahem kar)” from Sing With the World: Global Songs for Children. Or for now or a break: Prayers for the World by the Pentatonix.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Note for Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Remind people to order the book Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker if they haven’t already. They will need to have it read for Session 14. Note that we ask you to be aware of the privilege that Becker notes in her writing and use a critical eye as you read.
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
For facilitators:
This session includes an exercise that invites people to write their own prayer. Bring paper and pens for everyone in your group and be sure to save enough time to do the exercise (at least 20 minutes).
A reminder as we begin our reflection on prayer, that prayer will have a different meaning and history for each of us. The goal for this session is not to convince you of anything about prayer, but rather to experience one way people reach out and reach in to touch divine love.
Reflection Questions
Note that the questions are shortened to allow time for the prayer writing.
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Tell about an experience you have had with prayer.
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What is the role of prayer in your life?
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How has your experience of prayer changed over the years? How has it been helpful or hurtful in your life?
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Which of the prayers, or sets of prayers, from the choices speaks to you and why?
Exercise
Now, instead of just talking about prayer, we are going to actually experience it. Take the next few minutes to write a prayer. It doesn’t have to be perfect, just words from your heart. Sit with your prayer for a few minutes until the chime [singing bowl, bell, whatever you use] sounds.
After the chime, as you feel moved, please share your prayer out loud with the group if you feel comfortable doing so. No comments as people are sharing, please, but we will respond at the end of each prayer by saying “Amen.”
Reflection on Exercise
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How was the experience of writing your prayer? Sharing it?
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To whom or what do you pray? Does it matter?
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What are you hoping for with prayer in your life?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
You might also use some of the words and imagery from the prayers people read aloud to close this circle, or you might read “That Which Holds All” or another selection from the prayer samples. Music to end the session could include**“The Prayer”**by Pentatonix.
Session 11: World Religions
Session 11: World Religions
Session Metadata
| Session | 11 |
| Title | World Religions |
| UU Source | World Religions |
| Unit | 4th Source: World Religions |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Dear UU Wellspring friends,
Our next session is on [date]. We’ve talked about courage and love, prophets and prayer, and now we move to our next source:
Wisdom from the world’s religions which inspire us in our ethical and spiritual life.
UUA.org
As Unitarian Universalists, we look not only to our Christian heritage, but to Buddhism, Confucianism, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Taoism and other world religions for inspiration.
Our goal in this session is not to become experts on all of the world religions. Rather, we will focus on how world religions “inspire us in our ethical and spiritual lives.” The readings and videos encourage an openness to the gifts of the world’s religions, recognizing that many of us value cultural, spiritual and theological gifts from our own religious histories, whether we grew up in the Unitarian Universalist tradition, another faith tradition or as someone who has had many or no particular faith traditions.
Stephen Prothero, in *God is Not One,*quotes from Dimensions of the Sacred: An Anatomy of the World’s Beliefs by Ninian Smart, (Berkeley: Univ. of California Press, 1996).
For more than a century, scholars have searched for the essence of religion. They thought they found this holy grail in God, but then they discovered Buddhists and Jains who deny God’s existence. Today it is widely accepted that there is no one essence that all religions share. What they share are family resemblances—tendencies toward this belief or that behavior. In the family of religions, kin tend to perform rituals. They tend to tell stories about how life and death began and to write down these stories in scriptures. They tend to cultivate techniques of ecstasy and devotion. They tend to organize themselves into institutions and to gather in sacred places at sacred times. They tend to instruct human beings how to act toward one another. They tend to profess this belief or that about the gods and the supernatural. They tend to invest objects and places with sacred import. Philosopher of religion Ninian Smart has referred to these tendencies as the seven “dimensions” of religion: the ritual, narrative, experiential, institutional, ethical, doctrinal, and material dimensions.
Prothero, Stephen. God Is Not One (pp. 12-13). HarperOne. Kindle Edition.
Again in God is Not One, the author Stephen Prothero states:
One of the most common misconceptions about the world’s religions is that they plumb the same depths, ask the same questions. They do not. Only religions that see God as all good ask how a good God can allow millions to die in tsunamis. Only religions that believe in souls ask whether your soul exists before you are born and what happens to it after you die. And only religions that think we have one soul ask after “the soul” in the singular. Every religion, however, asks after the human condition. Here we are in these human bodies. What now? What next? What are we to become?
Prothero, Stephen. God Is Not One (p. 24). HarperOne. Kindle Edition.
I hope you’ll find time for these many opportunities to learn about other world religions and how they might inspire your ethical and spiritual life. If you are interested, Prothero’s book, quoted above,”God Is Not One,” reviews many of the world religions indepth and is available at most booksellers and some libraries.
Readings
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The Pluralism Project by Harvard University. Check the “Religions” menu item for essays on world religions and/or Explore the inspirations from world religions on the Unitarian Universalist Association pages.
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Holy Curiosity and Holy Trouble by Rev. Sean Dennison.
Media
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“World Population by Religions 1990 to 2022” produced by Data for You.
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“World’s Major Religions Holy Books Recitation Comparison 2020” produced by “Let’s Compare.”
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“2013 Ware Lecture by Eboo Patel: Standing Your Sacred Ground” Talk begins at 22 min and runs for 36 min (with introduction by Rev. Peter Morales, former President of the UUA at 18:20). Full text can be found below the video.
Reflection Questions
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What aspects of world religions inspire you as a Unitarian Universalist?
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Why do you think Unitarian Universalists who come from such a variety of religious backgrounds find a home in UU communities?
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What parts of world religions challenge you?
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Which recitations from world religions stirred you? What emotions, thoughts and images arose?
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How do you respond to Eboo Patel’s question: “How are all of us, with our beautiful resonances and our deep disagreements, to share a nation and a world together?”
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Is your religious background and history fully welcomed in Unitarianism?
I look forward to our time together.
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
We are alone yet intricately bound, inextricably connected to soil and stream and forest, to sun and corn and melting snow. We are alone yet bound by stories we cannot get out of to ancestors and descendants we will never meet. And all these natural conditions, these bonds we did not forge ourselves and yet cannot deny, are the strands of a theology, the seeds of faith, the beginning of *re-ligion,*of binding all things.
Victoria Safford in Walking Toward Morning: Meditations. Skinner House Books, 2003.
Music for today is “Peace, Salaam, Shalom” sung in English, Arabic and Hebrew by Emma’s Revolution.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Not for Facilitator:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
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What aspects of world religions inspire you as a Unitarian Universalist?
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Why do you think Unitarian Universalists who come from such a variety of religious backgrounds find a home in UU communities?
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What parts of world religions challenge you?
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Which recitations from world religions stirred you? What emotions, thoughts and images arose?
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How do you respond to Eboo Patel’s question: “How are all of us, with our beautiful resonances and our deep disagreements, to share a nation and a world together?”
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Is your religious background and history, as well as your current theology, fully welcomed in Unitarian Universalism?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Session 12: Forgiveness and Letting Go
Session 12: Forgiveness and Letting Go
Session Metadata
| Session | 12 |
| Title | Forgiveness and Letting Go |
| UU Source | World Religions |
| Unit | 4th Source: World Religions |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Heart |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
For our next session on [date], we will undertake the vast task of forgiveness.
Wisdom from the world’s religions which inspire us in our ethical and spiritual life.
UUA
Forgiveness is a core spiritual need that all religions address: in Islam, one of the names for God in the Quran is Al-Ghafoor, The Most Forgiving; in Christianity, Jesus died so that our sins would be forgiven; for Buddhists, forgiveness is necessary for internal harmony; Mahabharata, a Hindu text, states, “forgiveness is Brahma [God]; forgiveness is truth.”
Thich Nhat Hanh is a Buddhist Monk who writes in You Are Here:
“Conflict and suffering are often caused by a person not wanting to surrender his concepts and ideas of things. In the relationship between a father and a son, for example, or between partners, this happens all the time. It is important to train yourself to let go of your ideas about things. Freedom is cultivated by this practice of letting go. If you look deeply, you may find that you are holding on to a concept that is causing you to suffer a great deal. Are you intelligent enough, are you free enough, to give up this idea?”
I am becoming calm,
I am letting go.
Having let go, victory is mine.
I smile.
I am free.
Hanh, Thich Nhat. You Are Here (pp. 76-77). Shambhala.
So what are we to do with forgiveness as Unitarian Universalists? UU minister Rev. Kate Tucker’s sermon on forgiveness opens up the topic with wisdom and depth; the Forgiveness Project website shares real stories of what forgiveness looks like in people’s lives. Hanh describes letting go, which doesn’t change that you care deeply, but that you recognize when letting go allows a detachment or freedom from yearning and control. But as with all deeply spiritual concepts, the real work for this topic is your own reflection about forgiveness, your own need to heal and let go.
Readings
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Listen to “A Pattern So Vast” sermon by Rev. Kate Tucker (24 minutes)
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Read some true stories about forgiveness from people all over the world, from all religious traditions.
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Read “Dreaming Accountability” by Mia Mingus.
Reflection Questions
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Write a personal reflection that starts with, “In my life, forgiveness …”
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What resonated as true for you in Rev. Kate Tucker’s sermon?
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What similarities did you notice in the stories from The “Forgiveness Project?” How might the wisdom you find there inspire your own spiritual undertaking of forgiveness?
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Thich Nhat Hanh writes that “conflict and suffering are often caused by a person not wanting to surrender [their] concepts and ideas of things.” How does this Buddhist practice of letting go inform your understanding/expression of forgiveness?
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How does “dreaming accountability” affect our ability to practice forgiveness?
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Where is forgiveness most needed in your life? What practices might help you with forgiving or being forgiven?
Thinking of you all and looking forward to our time together.
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our opening reading is a poem by Rick Fields, d. 1999.
Behind the hardness there is fear
And if you touch the heart of the fear
You find sadness
And if you touch the sadness
You find the vast blue sky
-Rick Fields
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
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How did you finish this writing prompt: “In my life, forgiveness …”
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What resonated as true for you in Rev. Kate Tucker’s sermon?
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Thich Nhat Hanh writes that “conflict and suffering are often caused by a person not wanting to surrender [their] concepts and ideas of things.” How does this Buddhist practice of letting go inform your understanding/expression of forgiveness?
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What similarities did you notice in the stories from The Forgiveness Project? How might the wisdom you find there inspire your own spiritual undertaking of forgiveness, whether your hurts are small or large?
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Where is forgiveness most needed in your life? What practices might help you forgive or be forgiven?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. You can also invite people to share a word about what they are letting go of during this forgiveness process as a closing. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Session 13: Nature as Spiritual Guide
Session 13: Nature as Spiritual Guide
Session Metadata
| Session | 13 |
| Title | Nature as Spiritual Guide |
| UU Source | Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Unit | 5th Source: Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
At our next session on Thursday, [insert date], we’ll start our exploration of the spiritual teachings of Earth-centered traditions.
The language of this Source of our UU faith reads:
Spiritual teachings of Earth-centered traditions which celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.
UUA
As a part of our exploration of this source, we’ll learn a little bit about three different earth-centered philosophies: Transcendentalism, modern paganism, and religious naturalism. None of the readings are very long, so if you find yourself intrigued by one (or more!) of the philosophies and want to go deeper, there are optional suggestions for further study of each. The readings provide much-needed context for this source and for transcendentalism, paganism, and religious naturalism, so start with those.
But since having a purely intellectual discussion about earth-centered spirituality would go against the very heart of this source, we will also seek out experiences that take us outside of ourselves and that bring us into the world of nature, intuition and awe. After all, Thoreau wouldn’t want us to just read his words, but to live them.
Readings
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Optional: For a deeper understanding of paganism visit****Naturalistic Paganism.
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An Earth-Centered Traditionssource by Rev. Carolyn Brown to help give context to the UU connection with earth-based traditions.
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Oren Lyon’s remembrance of a discussion with an uncle about who he is. Filmed by the Sacred Land Project.
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A short selection from**Henry David Thoreau**: *(*Optional: the book Thoreau as Spiritual Guide published by Skinner House Books is part history, part philosophy, and part meditation manual.)
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The text of a brochure about modern paganism within Unitarian Universalism: (Optional: for those who are interested in learning more about modern paganism in a UU context, go to the website forCUUPS,the Covenant of Unitarian Universalist Pagans.)
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An introduction to religious naturalism by biologist Ursula Goodenough. *(Optional: for those who are interested in learning more about religious naturalism, **this website***is filled with information and inspiration. Goodenough’s book The Sacred Depths of Nature is also highly recommended as a classic religious naturalism book that blends science and spirituality.)
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“God’s Tears” (p. 64) from Voices from the Margins: An Anthology of Meditations edited by Jacqui James and Mark D. Morrison-Reed (book)
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Optional: for a deeper understanding of paganism visit Naturalistic Paganism.
Readings
Attend a ritual with a **CUUPS**chapter, or another event with an earth-based religious group, that is open to all. Respectfully experiencing nature-based religions and traditions is as important as reading about them, if not more so.
Take some time and go out in nature (or as close to nature as you can get given your life surroundings). Sit. Breathe. Notice. Your task is simply to experience your divine connection to the natural world. Do this as often as possible before our session. Notice what it is like for you to be in nature and then journal about the experience. Come to our group ready to share your reflections.
Reflection Questions
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Do you connect with nature as part of your spirituality?
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How does that affect how you live your life?
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Have you had a “religious experience” in nature?
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What similarities do you see between transcendentalism, paganism, and/or religious naturalism and your own faith?
Reflecting on the pre-work:
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What was it like for you to sit in nature and experience it explicitly as a source of UU religious inspiration?
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What did you notice?
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How did it affect you?
I look forward to hearing about your experiences with nature, Transcendentalism, paganism, and religious naturalism! Also, check in to the UU Wellspring Facebook****Page for Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community. If you post something about your experiences in UU Wellspring while you are there, you may find other UUs who are delving into the same topics!
We will begin reading Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker by our next session, so if you haven’t gotten a copy, now is the time!
I look forward to hearing about your experiences with nature, Transcendentalism, paganism, and religious naturalism!
Session Plan
**Note to Facilitators:**Since this session is about being inspired by the Earth, having part of this session outside makes it more experiential. Stay inside through check-ins, and then, weather permitting, take your group outside for the reflection time.
If it isn’t feasible to take your group outside (no outdoor seating, mobility concerns, etc.), bringing some flowers or greenery to put next to the chalice brings some of the beauty of nature into the circle.
**Next Year:**This is also a good time to begin thinking about UU Wellspring programs for next year. As a facilitator or congregational coordinator, review the programs offered and consider your own interests. There will be a short video in the next session to introduce participants to upcoming opportunities.
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Today we start our experience of this UU source:
Spiritual teachings of Earth-centered traditions which celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.
Our opening words are by Robin Wall Kimmerer from Braiding Sweetgrass:
Breathe it in and you start to remember things you didn’t know you’d forgotten.
Robin Wall Kimmerer from Braiding Sweetgrass:
The Music today is to play a ten minute audio section of bird sounds, with or without the video or a harmony in naturevideo.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Note for Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
Note for facilitators: If you’re planning on going outside, bring your group out now before starting the reflection questions. Once your group is all seated outside, take a few moments of quiet and a few deep breaths to again become fully present.
Reflection Questions
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Do you connect with nature as part of your spirituality?
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How does that affect how you live your life?
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Have you had a “religious experience” in nature?
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What similarities do you see between transcendentalism, paganism, and/or religious naturalism and your own faith?
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Reflecting on the pre-work: What was it like for you to sit in nature and experience it as a source of UU religious inspiration? What did you notice? How did it affect you?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone stand, holding hands, around the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Session 14: UUism and the Crisis of Life
Session 14: UUism and the Crisis of Life
Session Metadata
| Session | 14 |
| Title | UUism and the Crisis of Life |
| UU Source | Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Unit | 5th Source: Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Hands |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
For our next session on [date], we will discuss how our faith has supported us, or not, during the crises of our lives. Part of the earth-centered spirituality source calls us to “live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.” This task is easy when our lives are filled with springtime and flowers, but much harder when we face storms and personal challenges. In other words: the rhythms of nature include both growth and disease, both birth and mortality. How do we live in harmony with all of it? How does Unitarian Universalism support our life?
The pre-work for this session includes an article highlighting the support offered during the most difficult months of the pandemic. UU Chaplains who were called to care for those in crisis, discuss how their faith held them and helped them carry on.
This session also begins our reading of the book Heartwood, The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker. (Context Note: Becker writes from her personal experience and perspective of a white woman with economic and racial privilege. She includes stories and experiences that some have identified as problematic. We encourage a critical lens as you read.)
- Please read the Author’s Note, and the first chapter titled “Marisa.”
These additional short pieces explore areas that have challenged UUs:
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“Don’t Forget to Mourn” byJekaren Olaoya from Shelter in Place edited by Meg Riley. 2021. Printed by permission of author.
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“Not enough Candles,” (p. 13 and below) by Sean Neil-Barron from To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilienceedited by William G. Sinkford. Printed by permission of poet.
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“After the Shootings: A Prayer.” by Rev. xolani kacela (p. 31) from To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilienceedited by William G. Sinkford. Used by permission of the author.
Reflection Questions
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What insights resonated with you from the article “Serving with the Deepest Respect and Care? How has your UU faith helped you or fallen short for you during the pandemic?
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In the book Heartwood, the author describes the core of a tree as the sustainer of new life. What is at your core that sustains you? How does your identity and ancestry affect your core?
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In the Heartwood chapter, “Marisa,” the author finds that simple presence and ordinary life sustains her during a time profound loss. Have you also found this to be true; if so, how have you experienced this?
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Did the readings from To Wake, to Rise bring any unexpected feelings for you or feelings of connection with the poets?
Also, please bring something with youthat represents what sustains you in a time of spiritual, emotional and/or physical crisis. This could be a poem, music, writing, art, or something more personal such as an artifact of your religious past or a photo of a beloved person or place. Another way to think about this is to imagine you are being rushed to the hospital in an ambulance and it’s not clear if you will survive. What words, images, prayers, music, ideas would come to you at this time? What anchors you? How do you keep your heart open even while it’s breaking?
Or maybe you haven’t found the support you need in times of crisis. In times of crisis, such as a health crisis, loss of job or home, what do you long for? What would sustain you?
We will each have a chance to share our items with each other.
You may also be thinking about what’s next? Your spiritual journey doesn’t need to end here! You can find more information on all of UU Wellspring programs on the UU Wellspring website.
I’m looking forward to our time together.
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
**Note to Facilitators:**Read aloud: “I Pray this Day for the Courage to Be…” by Maureen Killoran, found on page 30 of To Wake to Rise.
“I Pray this Day for the Courage to Be…”
I pray this day for the courage to be . . .
The courage to be humble in the face of inequity and pain, to know that the power has been given me to make a difference, although not to end all suffering or to save all the whales that populate our days.
I pray for the courage of endurance, to keep acting in the midst of despair, to keep trying in the aftermath of failure, to keep hoping in the emptiness that follows loss or change.
May courage give me patience and may I ever know Love’s healing presence at the heart and center of my days.
Maureen Killoran, from To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilience edited by William G. Sinkford.
Play Samuel Barber’s Adagio for Strings or say, “Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.”
Additional optional music to play during a Break or at the end of the session as people are logging off: Standing Stone and Sending You Light, both performed by Unitarian Universalist Voice Activist Melanie DeMore.
Check-In
How is your spiritual practice going? Your spiritual direction? What are you carrying in your heart?
Covenant Review
**Note for Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant, including reading it out loud together at each session.
Anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
We’ll start our reflection time by sharing what we each brought. The invitation was to bring something — poetry, art, music — with you that represents what sustains you in times of crisis. Just a reminder that this is a circle without judgment or comment.
We will listen openly to our own and others’ truth, and then once everyone has shared, we’ll have some time for reflection.
**Note for Facilitators:**Divide the hour by the number of participants to make sure each person has time to share. Ask each person to share what s/he brought and to take [x] minutes to describe how and why it helps them through life crises.
As time allows, some possible reflection questions:
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What insights resonated with you from the article “Serving with the Deepest Respect and Care? How did your UU faith helped you or fallen short for you during the pandemic? Or another time of familial or congregational challenge?
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In the book Heartwood, the author describes the core of a tree as the sustainer of new life. What is at your core that sustains you? How does your identity and ancestry affect your core?
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In the Heartwood chapter, “Marisa,” the author finds that simple presence and ordinary life sustains her during a time profound loss. Have you also found this to be true; if so, how have you experienced this?
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Did the readings from To Wake, to Rise bring any unexpected feelings for you or feelings of connection with the poets?
Or ask these more general questions:
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What words, images, prayers, music, ideas would come to you at this time?
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What anchors you?
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How do you keep your heart open even while it’s breaking?
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What do you long for? What would sustain you?
So What?
What does this reflection call you to do? In our circle? In your life?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation, such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.
If you want to play music at the end, you might choose “We Shall Be Known” by MaMuse.
Session 15: The Theology of Joy
Session 15: The Theology of Joy
Session Metadata
| Session | 15 |
| Title | The Theology of Joy |
| UU Source | Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Unit | 5th Source: Earth-Centered Spirituality |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Heart |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Our next session is on [date]. We’ve learned from spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions and reflected on the struggle to live in harmony with a natural world and the trauma of human living in today’s world. Now it’s time to call out one specific word in this source:
Spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions whichcelebratethe sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.
UUA.org
Celebrate! Of course. Nature itself teaches that the spiritual life doesn’t always have to be somber.
Researchers at the Yale Center for Faith and Culture claim, however, that “modern culture is marked by joylessness.” This absence of joy creates a vacuum that stress and worry rush in to fill. The result is a “flattening out” and a “graying” of human experience. The antidote to this spiritual stagnation, according to these Yale researchers, is intentionally bringing more joy into our lives, our families, and our communities.
Readings
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For the two weeks prior to this session, spend some time at the end of each day writing about what has given you the greatest joy that day.
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Read this “We Need Joy “by Rev. Peggy Clark.
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Listen to this very short call by Madame Ghandi****for focusing on joy in the face of oppression.
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Watch “Brené Brown on Joy: It’s Terrifying” (six minutes)
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Read “Black Joy” by Kimberley Quinn Johnson, UU World, Spring 2022 and “Black Joy is Black Resistance” by Brodderick Greer in teh Huffington Post, June 2015.
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Watch Ross Gay read from his book, The Book of Delights.
If you have the optional books, please read:
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“A Gospel Chorus” by Maury Eldrige (p. 25) from To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilienceedited by William G. Sinkford.
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From Voices from the Margins: An Anthology of Meditationsedited by Jacqui James and Mark D. Morrison-Reed:”The Stars Are Dancing” by Om Prakash (p. 94).
Reflection Questions
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How is joy a spiritual pursuit? When has it transformed you? What would it be like if we took this source’s mandate to “celebrate the sacred cycle of life” seriously?
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Is joy terrifying as Brené Brown suggests?
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Greer ends “Black Joy” with “We will not be crushed because we know that while the history of white supremacy is long and triumphant, white supremacy itself is not the last word; joy is.” What is your relationship with joy in the work of antiracism?
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There are times when experiencing joy seems almost impossible: depression, trauma, profound grief. Have there been times in your life when joy was absent? How did that change your views of and relationship with joy?
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Inspired by “We Need Joy” by Rev. Clark, when do you choose to be embraced by joy?
We will read Let Your Life Speakby Parker Palmer for Session 18 (in three sessions) so you may want to check to see if you have a copy and if not, **order one here**or from your favorite bookseller.
Check into our **UU Wellspring Facebook******Page for Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community!
May you be blessed with abundant joy!
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Read aloud “On the Brink” by Leslie Takahashi Morris (p.25 and below) from Voices from the Margins: An Anthology of Meditationsedited by Jacqui James and Mark D. Morrison-Reed. Printed here by permission of the author.
On the Brink All that we have ever loved and all that we have ever been stands with us on the brink of all that we aspire to create: a deeper peace, a larger love, a more embracing hope, a greater generosity of spirit, a deeper joy in this life we share . — Leslie Takahashi Morris
Music for today is the Linus and Lucy theme by Vince Guaraldi.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Note to Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
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Looking back at the joy journal you’ve kept over the past two weeks, what surprised you? When have you felt particularly joyful? Has journaling about joy changed you?
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Is joy terrifying as Brene Brown suggests?
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Quinn Johnson ends “Black Joy” with “We will not be crushed because we know that while the history of white supremacy is long and triumphant, white supremacy itself is not the last word; joy is.” What is your relationship with joy in the work of antiracism?
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There are times when experiencing joy seems almost impossible: depression, trauma, oppression, profound grief. Have there been times in your life when joy was absent? How did that change your views of and relationship with joy?
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Inspired by “We Need Joy” by Rev. Clark, when do you choose to be embraced by joy?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation, such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.”
Session 16: Good Without God
Session 16: Good Without God
Session Metadata
| Session | 16 |
| Title | Good Without God |
| UU Source | Humanist Teachings |
| Unit | 6th Source: Humanist Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Head |
| Has Exercise | Yes |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | Exercise |
Preparation
Email to Participants
At our next session on [date], we’ll start our exploration of our last UU source:
Humanist teachings which counsel us to heed the guidance of reason and the results of science, and warn us against idolatries of the mind and spirit.
UUA.org
The emphasis on reason in humanism serves as a counter-balance to the focus on intuition in Transcendentalism. Communing with nature is one way to spiritual growth, but we also need to engage our minds in pursuit of the Truth.
The readings this week include a link to the UU Humanist Association, a sermon by the Rev. Karen Hutt that provides both history and inspiration, the three Humanist Manifestos, and a short article about how humanism can offer a direct, relevant response to a contemporary issue of injustice.
Readings
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Rev. Dr. Barry Andrews 2019 Dale Amink Sermon Award: “What does Humanism mean today?” the Unitarian Universalist Humanist associations description of religious humanism. Printed with the permission of the author.
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“Ears and Eyes for the Here and Now“ by Rev. Karen Hutt
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A UU Humanist Religious humanism description.
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**“Trans People and Basic Human Respect”**by Greta Christina
Please explore these documents as your time permits:
Reflection Questions
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Write down a passage from the readings that especially speaks to you. How does it resonate to you as a Unitarian Universalist? Do you resonate with the Andrews’ idea of religious humanism?
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What do the Three Humanist Manifestos have to say in conversation with each other, as the Rev. Karen Hutt offers?
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How does humanism encourage “questioning our assumptions” as Cristina states in “Trans People and Basic Human Respect?”
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What is your reaction to the Humanist Manifestos? Are there parts that you agree with? Disagree with? Why?
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How does humanism inspire your beliefs and actions? How does it influence your congregation?
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In the face of injustice, how does humanism offer us hope and guidance?
Check into our **UU Wellspring Facebook******Page for Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community!
I’m looking forward to our time together.
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
We’ll begin our time together with three humanist haikus from the American Humanist Association:
We are made of stars From cosmic dust colliding, Our ribs are our own.
My morality Comes from my humanity, Not from threats or bribes.
Godless? I suppose. Loving the world we live in Is its own reward.
American Humanist Association
Today’s music is “Swimming to the Other Side” by Emma’s Revolution.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart today? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Note to Facilitators: Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
Today we’re starting our reflection on this UU source:
Humanist teachings which counsel us to heed the guidance of reason and the results of science, and warn us against idolatries of the mind and spirit.
UUA.org
Reflection Questions
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Is there something in the readings that especially resonates?
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How did you respond to Andrews’ explanation of religious humanism?
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What is your reaction to the Humanist Manifestos? Are there parts that you agree with? Disagree with? Why?
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How does humanism offer us hope and guidance today?
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How does humanism encourage “questioning our assumptions” as Cristina states in “Trans People and Basic Human Respect?”
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How does humanism inspire your beliefs and actions? How does it influence our congregation?
Exercise
Invite your group to take a few minutes and write their own humanist haikus. Haikus are a three line poem with five syllables in the first line, seven in the second, and five in the third. Reread one or more of the haikus used in the opening reading as examples.
Ask volunteers to read their haikus out loud.
What deeply held beliefs do these haikus name?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.”
Session 17: UU Perspectives on Death and the Afterlife
Session 17: UU Perspectives on Death and the Afterlife
Session Metadata
| Session | 17 |
| Title | UU Perspectives on Death and the Afterlife |
| UU Source | Humanist Teachings |
| Unit | 6th Source: Humanist Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Hands |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
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Preparation
Email to Participants
At our next session on [date], we’ll be reflecting on death and the afterlife. This is a difficult topic and also one that can’t be ignored as a part of an authentic spiritual journey.
In her book, Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind, Barbara Becker writes, “in our culture, we are told that death is the last and greatest taboo–as welcome as a skunk at a garden party. Yet most often when I spoke of my experiences with loss, people opened up about their own.”
In this session we will explore what keeps us from opening up about our losses in our culture and how this does, or does not, play-out in our UU faith communities.
We will also consider how our own belief and understanding of an afterlife informs our experience of death, loss and grief.
Since this session will bring up losses, fear and grief for many of us, we will approach our time together with deep love and acceptance. You are invited to share at whatever level you are comfortable; if the grief in your life is still raw, know you are welcome to share much or little of it. If you want additional support, please reach out to me and I’ll connect you with pastoral care resources.
Readings
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Read several more chapters of your choosing, or complete the book Heartwood if you haven’t done so yet, and then read the Postscript. Continue your critical reading of the text.
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View the video with Barbara Becker Author ofHeartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind
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“Introduction” and “June 6-12” from Rev. Nancy Schaffer’s While Still There is Light: Writings from a Minister Facing Death, edited by Mary McKinnon Ganz. Available from Skinner Books and the UUA Inspirit Bookstore.
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“Where God Is” by Kenny Wiley
Reflection Questions
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What have been your experiences with death and dying? How have they shaped you? What do you believe about an afterlife?
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Rev. Nancy Schaffer writes about her experience of living knowing she is dying. How do you live with the end in mind? Is this comforting or frightening to you?
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In her book Heartwood, Barbara Becker describes the core of a tree, the Heartwood, that is actually inert, supporting the new life continuing to grow around it. How do you consider this metaphor as you think of loved ones who have died? Who is the pillar of strength that, though gone, supports your life?
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How do you consider this metaphor in relation to your own death? Who do you support? What legacy will you leave when you die?
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How is death held in your UU community? Is it where you turn, or would turn, in times of loss? Why or why not?
Reminder: If you haven’t yet ordered Parker Palmer’s bookLet Your Life Speak for Session 18, you can order it at an online bookseller or from the UUA Inspirit Book Store.
Also, check in to the UU Wellspring Facebook****Page for Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community.
Thinking of you all.
Session Plan
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Please listen as I read **“Let Me Die Laughing”**by Mark D. Morrison-Reed. Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
If you want to add music, play “Meditation” played by Yo Yo Ma.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart tonight? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection
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What have been your experiences with death and dying? How have they shaped you? What do you believe about an afterlife?
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Rev. Nancy Schaffer writes about her experience of living knowing she is dying. How do you live with the end in mind? Is this comforting or frightening to you?
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In her book Heartwood, Barbara Becker describes the core of a tree, the Heartwood, that is actually inert, supporting the new life continuing to grow around it. How do you consider this metaphor as you think of loved ones who have died? Who is the pillar of strength that, though gone, supports your life?
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How do you consider this metaphor in relation to your own death? Who do you support? What legacy will you leave when you die?
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How is death held in your UU community? Is it where you turn, or would turn, in times of loss? Why or why not?
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation such as, “For all this and more, we are grateful.”
Session 18: Let Your Life Speak
Session 18: Let Your Life Speak
Session Metadata
| Session | 18 |
| Title | Let Your Life Speak |
| UU Source | Humanist Teachings |
| Unit | 6th Source: Humanist Teachings |
| Head / Hands / Heart | Heart |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | Yes |
| Special Blocks | None |
Preparation
Email to Participants
Humanism reminds us that, above all, what we do matters. UU minister and humanist Kenneth Phifer states, “Humanism tells us that whatever our philosophy of the universe may be, ultimately the responsibility for the kind of world in which we live rests with us.”
Therefore, our final session on humanism as a UU source centers on a bigger answer to our routine question, “So what?” So, what does this UU Wellspring journey call me to do in my life? What comes next?
Our session will focus on two components: how our faith calls us to live our values, and what we are personally called to do and be in our own lives.
The reading and resources provide context for a final reflection on the question we have asked after each session. So, what are you called to do as a result of your 10-month spiritual journey through UU Wellspring?
Readings
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Let Your Life Speak****by Parker Palmer, chapters 1, 2, 5, and 6.
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“Hush, Someone’s Calling Your Name**,”**by Kimberley Quinn Johnson
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“Three Things“ by Jan Taddeo.
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Qiyamah Rahman’s “It Is That Time and Place.“
Media
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UUA video about Unitarian Universalists-Showing Up. (1 min)
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View again the video with Barbara Becker Author of **Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind**Specifically 11:27 to end of video.
Reflection Questions
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Rahman calls us to carry on the work of our ancestors. What might that mean for you? How have our UU ancestors set our path for today’s work in social justice.
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How does the work of justice fit into your life, your vocation?
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In Let Your Life Speak, Parker Palmer talks about vocation as “something I can’t not do.” Others talk about having numerous, sometimes overlapping callings throughout life. Do you feel as if you have found your vocation? Or have you had many smaller callings in your life, or both?
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Barbara Becker talks about trusting the “true north” of her heart to lead her life. How do you relate to this?
Please prepare to share your reflection on our final “So, What?” question. These questions are prompts for your reflection and do not necessarily need to all be answered.
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How do you live your values, or our UU values in your life?
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Where do you work for justice, equity, compassion? Remember there are small ways and loud and noisy ways we do this.
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How has this 10-month program inspired you to live or be different?
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As a result of your time in UU Wellspring, where is your life calling you to go next? What’s next for your spiritual journey? Your life or your ministry?
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How will you follow your true north? How will you let your life speak?
You might want to look back at your journal from the beginning of the year where you described your spiritual life. How would you describe it now?
Please complete the UU Wellspring Feedback****form now or after the final session. Facilitators, you will receive a feedback form via email. If you don’t receive one by this session, please contact director@uuwellspring.org.
If UU Wellspring has made an impact on your life, would you consider a donation to fund future curriculum development, updates, and opportunities to make the program available to more people? If so, please visit our website and use the donate button at the bottom of the home page to share your love.
Perhaps you would like to make a legacy gift either online or by check, or even through the UUA Umbrella fund option, that will keep UU Wellspring sustainable and affordable for all. You may also send a check made out to UU Wellspring to Linnea Nelson, Executive Director, 8848 Grey Hawk Point, Orlando, FL 32836. We will be printing your name on our website as a supporter (unless you request to be anonymous.)
If we want to continue as a group, we can consider another UU Wellspring advanced curriculum, including Spiritual Practices, Faithful Actions, Deep Questions or our other Seeker Series that offers opportunities to find some of your own inspiration: Sacred Arts. Our shorter programs include UU Wellspring Reads: Sacred Earth (6 sessions) and our Youth or Young Adult programs (8 sessions). Learn more about any of these program here.
Also, check in to the UU Wellspring Facebook****Pagefor Spiritual Practices and UU Wellspring Community.
I look forward to our time together!
Session Plan
**Online Plan for the End of the Session Gratitude:**You can ask participants to share an affirmation for each person using the email template at the end of this session as your final email if you do not plan to meet the last time.
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our opening words are “Faithless Works” from poet and UU Minister, Rev. Jonipher Kwong, from To Wake To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilienceedited by William G. Sinkford.
Faithless Works
They say faith without works is dead So I worked for equality Next to my queer friends who wanted to get married And I worked for religious freedom Next to my Muslim friends who were accused of being terrorists And I worked for racial justice Next to my Black friends whose lives were affected by police brutality
Yet I didn’t feel fully alive even after working myself to death Until I let me work become a spiritual practice Until I let go of my attachment to the outcome Until I stopped chasing after political issues, one after another I still believe faith without works is dead But works without faith is just as lifeless.
-Jonipher Kwong
The music for today is “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Check-In
What are you carrying in your heart today? How is your spiritual practice or spiritual companioning going?
Covenant Review
**Note to Facilitators:**Use whatever process your group has established to stay current with the covenant.
Is there anything about the covenant that we should address?
Spiritual Practice Presentation
Reflection, Part One
As UUs, how are we called to live our values.
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Rahman calls us to carry on the work of our ancestors. What might that mean for you? How have our UU ancestors set our path for today’s work in social justice.
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How does the work of justice fit into your life, your vocation?
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If you read Let Your Life Speak, Parker Palmer talks about vocation as “something I can’t not do.” Others talk about having numerous, sometimes overlapping callings throughout life. Do you feel as if you have found your vocation? Or have you had many smaller callings in your life, or both?
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Barbara Becker talks about trusting the “true north” of her heart to lead her life. How do you relate to this?
Reflection, Part Two
So, what are you called to do or be in your life? (40 minutes)
Split the time allotted among the participants and allow them individually to respond and reflect on these questions. This is the final “So, What” question. It’s a chance for participants to pull together their experience of the program and project their learning into the future.
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How do you live your values, or our UU values in your life?
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Where do you work for justice, equity, compassion? Remember there are small ways and loud and noisy ways we do this.
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How has this 10-month program inspired you to live or be different?
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As a result of your time in UU Wellspring, where is your life calling you to go next. What’s next for your spiritual journey? Your life or your ministry?
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How will you follow your true north? How will you let your life speak?
Please remind everyone to complete the feedback form in the last email to the group and to consider a donation to UU Wellspring to support ongoing program updates.
So What?
How does this reflection relate to your spiritual journey? What are you inspired or challenged to do next?
Gratitude and Closing
Have everyone focus on the chalice. Each person, as moved, says one or two words about something from this session for which they are grateful or how they are feeling in this moment. After everyone has said a word, close with a brief statement of thanks and appreciation.
Email to Participants
If you are meeting online, you won’t be able to pass around affirmation cards at the next session to share affirmations with one another. Instead, use this email after your last session (either now or after Session 19).
Dear Friends,
What an inspiring year…so good to companion one another.
Affirmations: Within the week, please send me a one or two line appreciation for each person. Please sign your name after each one. I will gather them and send them back to you individually. Please write them below and just reply to me.
name
name
name
name
etc.
Feedback We thrive on feedback and use it to make the program better. Thanks to those of you who have already completed this **Feedback Form.**For others, could you take a few minutes to do so?
Donations UU Wellspring is a small nonprofit. If you would like to show your appreciation for UU Wellspring, we would welcome any gift through our donation linkor checks made out to UU Wellspring inc and sent to:
UU Wellspring Linnea Nelson, Executive Director 8848 Grey Hawk Pt. Orlando, FL 32836
Legacy gifts and gifts made through the UUA umbrella program are also welcome.
Continue with the UU Wellspring Program Advanced Programs
Visit UU Wellspring to learn about the advanced programs that your congregation can host.
Blessings to all of you!
Session 19: Celebration and Reflection
Session 19: Celebration and Reflection
Session Metadata
| Session | 19 |
| Title | Celebration and Reflection |
| UU Source | Conclusion |
| Unit | Closing |
| Head / Hands / Heart | N/A |
| Has Exercise | No |
| Has Ritual | No |
| Has Spiritual Practice Presentation | No |
| Special Blocks | Presentations, Gratitude Exercise, Closing Circle |
Preparation
Also note that UU Wellspring materials are subscription based. Please delete any downloads at the end of each program. We update each summer and any downloaded materials should not be considered current. Thank you for supporting UU Wellspring in this way so that we can continue being relevant and meaningful in the lives of so many Unitarian Universalists. If your congregation has not yet committed to next year, please share your experience with leadership to ensure continuation.
Note for facilitators: This final session will probably take more than the normal two-hour meeting depending on the size of the group. Either start earlier or have your group plan on staying later.
If you are meeting in person, in addition to the session plan below, this final session might also include a shared meal, small gifts, poetry, music, laughter — whatever feels right for your group.
**Note:**you will need to provide blank cards and pens for your group for the gratitude exercise.
**Online Groups:**If you choose to meet, make sure the projects are accessible to online meeting. You can teach people how to share their screen if they have videos, documents, websites or photos to share.
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**Option for Online Groups:**Here are some options for the affirmation activity that you would have otherwise written on blank cards during the session.
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**Low Key, Low Time Commitment:**Suggest everyone take a few moments to write affirmations directly to each person in the chat and allow everyone the option to save their chat.
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Provide emails of all participants and facilitators. Invite each person to write a brief email to each of the other people with a brief affirmation.
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**More impactful, but takes some time and effort (and possibly postage) on part of facilitator:**Send an email with all of the names of participants and facilitators listed. Then invite the participants to write a brief affirmation after each name (and sign their own name). The facilitator can cut and paste the affirmations to separate files and either email all of the affirmations for each person to the intended recipient or print them out and mail them. You might also print onto a blank greeting card or write your own note and include the affirmations. See sample letter at the end of Session 18.
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**Needs Technical Know-How:**You could also make a shared Google Sheet and put each person’s name in a tab.
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If you have other ideas, please share in the comment section at the end of this session!
Thank you, Facilitators! We are so grateful for your dedication as a UU Wellspring facilitator.
We would like to send you a small gift for completing ourFacilitator’s Feedback.****
Your feedback will enhance our program and help us understand the needs of your participants. Thank you!
Email to Participants
We have come to the end of this year’s journey together. (That sentence fills me with emotion!) For our final session, we will reflect on what we’ve experienced and celebrate our time together.
At the start of the year, we were invited to become the theologians of our own lives. We then searched for and found courage in prophetic voices, learned about radical love, and reimagined God. We became more mindful of the present moment and reached towards forgiveness. We listened to the teachings of nature and heard messages of hope and joy. We looked towards death and saw our lives in a new light.
What a journey it has been!
For our final session, you are invited topull together what this year has meant for you by integrating your thoughts and experiences. Using whatever medium works best (art, music, poetry, written reflection, etc.), prepare a brief presentation to share with the group that articulates your theology and how you will put those beliefs into action. A few questions to help you get started:
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Think back to the start of this year. Why did you join UU Wellspring? If you remember what you wrote at our opening retreat on your two rocks (one to keep and one to throw away), how have you lived into that covenant with yourself?
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How has this year changed your understanding of Unitarian Universalism?
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What were some of the most memorable readings for you? Group reflections?
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What surprised you this year? Why?
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How are you more deeply grounded in these sources?
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How do you feel more connected to the larger communities that inform our UU sources?
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How will this experience change how you are as a member of this UU community?
At our session, we will each have time to share our presentation with the group.
If you have not had time to complete the UU Wellspring Feedback form, please do so now.
Another reminder:
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If we want to continue as a group, or some of you want to continue with others interested in UU Wellspring, UU Wellspring now has a new 12-session program: Love at the Center: UU Values and Covenants. This program extends experiential opportunities and storytelling. As a member congregation, Sources, the foundational UU Wellspring program and/or Love at the Center will be included, so we could choose either one. Other UU Wellspring 6-session programs include UU Wellspring Reads: Sacred Earth or Creating Meaning.
Since you have taken Sources, we can consider other year long programs, such as or Love at the Center, Deep Questions, Spiritual Practices, Faithful Actions, or the Seeker Series that offers opportunities to find some of your own inspiration: Sacred Arts or Spiritual Ancestors. Also, Youth or Young Adult programs include 8 session programs on Sources and Spiritual Practices and a new LOVE: YEA! (8 sessions). Learn more about any of these program here.
Stay connected through the UU Wellspring Facebook****Pageor visit the **webpage**for more information.
With deep gratitude for each of you,
Session Plan
Note for facilitators: If you are meeting in person, bring blank cards/envelopes and pens for your group for the gratitude exercise. Save at least half an hour at the end of the session for this activity. If you are meeting on line, copy the email from the end of Session 18 and send it out as a final email. Collect the emailed affirmations and send back out individually via email or mail to each individual.
**Online Tip:**See the orange online tip box near the beginning of this session to choose an affirmation process and share it with the group members so they know how to access and send their affirmations.
Chalice Lighting and Silence
Our opening words are the same words we used at our opening retreat:
*“We begin by remembering the sound and the feeling of the one Being, the Wellspring of love. We affirm that the next thing we experience shimmers with the light of the Whole Universe.”
Note: “We begin by remembering” is one translation of the Arabic word Bismallah, which is used at the beginning of prayer and from a translation by Neil Douglas-Klotz in The Sufi Book of Life*.
Let’s take a few minutes of silence to bring ourselves fully into this circle.
Presentations
**Note to Facilitators:**Plan on no more than ten minutes per group member; again, you might want to use a timer. Honor each group member’s presentation with listening and silence. If there is extra time (save at least half an hour for the gratitude exercise and closing circle), invite people to reflect on what they just heard.
**Online Tip:**Ensure that you have given screen sharing privileges to everyone in case they want to share a visual copy of their project.
Gratitude Exercise
Note to Facilitators: Have each participant choose a notecard and put her/his name on it. Pass the cards around so each member of the group can write a statement of gratitude for the person whose card it is, a remembrance to carry away. This exchange of gratitudes has been very meaningful for participants.
Online Tip: The Gratitude Exercise will be done after the group ends.
Closing Circle
Allow participants time to say out loud what is in their hearts by asking: What do you want us to know as we close our circle?
After responses, have focus on the chalice. Close the circle with each person saying one word they will carry with them.
Blessings, farewell and Amen.
Sources Facilitator Guide
UU Sources was originally written by Sara Smalley**with the Reverends Jen Crow, Libby Moore and Deborah Raible. Updates have been provided by Kimberley Debus, Sarah Lenzi, Julica Hermann de la Fuente, Linnea Nelson and Rev. Tina Simson with consultation with Rev. Kierstin Homblatte-Allen from Beloved Conversations.
Introduction
“What will you do with this one wild and precious life?” asks the poet Mary Oliver.
UU Wellspring is a 10-month program of distinctly Unitarian Universalist spiritual development designed to help participants answer that provocative question.
Begun in 2005, the program celebrates the depth and breadth of our rich religious tradition. Over the years, UU Wellspring has expanded and now offers five years of programming: Sources (the revised first-year curriculum, described below), Spiritual Practices, Deep Questions, Faithful Actions and Sacred Practices, with Spiritual Ancestors in development.
UU Wellspring offers participants an opportunity for spiritual deepening that leads to more joyful living, increased congregational leadership, and faithful justice making in their lives and in their communities. UU Wellspring inc gives spiritual power to UU communities that will sustain and strengthen UU identity and justice work through these five essential components:
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Small group connections
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Daily spiritual practices
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Spiritual direction
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Deeper knowledge of UU history and theology
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Putting UU faith into action
The First Year: UU Wellspring – Sources
Background
Many Unitarian Universalists, young and old, are familiar with the seven principles, a statement of our most deeply held values that starts with “the inherent worth and dignity of every person” and ends with “respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.”
In addition to affirming and promoting the seven principles, the living tradition of Unitarian Universalism also draws on six sources for religious knowledge and spiritual growth: direct experience, prophetic women and men, world religions, Jewish and Christian teachings, humanist teachings, and Earth-centered traditions. If the seven principles are what we aspire to, the six sources are what inspires us.
In UU Wellspring – Sources, which is a prerequisite for all other years of UU Wellspring, participants are challenged by, comforted by, and inspired by each one of the six sources. They learn not just about Unitarian Universalism, but also about how to integrate their Unitarian Universalist faith more fully into their daily lives.
A note about our resources: We use diverse voices in both readings and music and we credit every writer and artist. When we create our own documents, we seek permission from the authors. We are monitoring to ensure that the musical artists are from the culture the music represents. Our sensitivity readers look for the music to consistently meet these standards. We seek to continue to hold an evolving understanding of appropriation and we appreciate comments from facilitators and participants to help us be equitable in this area.
Structure
UU Wellspring – Sources is divided into six units, one for each of the six UU sources. Within each of the six units, participants cycle through a head-hands-heart experience of the source:
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Head: When introduced to a given source, participants learn about our Unitarian Universalist faith tradition. Grounded in UU history and theology, topics such as courage, love, and justice are explored.
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Hands: For the second section, participants reflect on how taking the source seriously might change the way we view the world and live our lives. Meaningful topics are brought into the circle such as the theology of everyday life, the prophetic imperative, and reimagining God.
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Heart: During the third part of the head-hands-heart cycle, participants go deep into core spiritual themes: vulnerability, forgiveness, joy, and more. Spiritual struggles, spiritual practices, and spiritual questions are all brought forth, with the wisdom of each source as a guide.
Holding this all together are the essential components that are the core of all UU Wellspring programs: small group connection, commitment to daily spiritual practice, monthly spiritual direction, reading and reflecting on the assignments, and putting our faith into action, all resting on a foundation of deep listening.
Sessions
Welcome Email to Participants
Retreat
Session 1*— Welcoming the Soul*
Session 2 — Everyday Theology
Session 3 — Spiritual Histories
Session 4— Prophetic Voices of Our Unitarian and Universalist Ancestors
Session 5 — Prophetic Voices of Today
Session 6 — Your Own Prophetic Voice: Vulnerability and Courage
Session 7*— Solstice Ritual*
Jewish and Christian Heritage
Session 8 — Jewish and Christian Teachings
Session 9 — Reimagining God: Process Theology
Session 10 — Prayer
World Religions
Session 11 — World Religions
Session 12 — Forgiveness and Letting Go
5th Source: Earth-Centered Spirituality
Session 13 — Nature as Spiritual Guide
Session 14 — UUism and the Crisis of Life
Session 15 — The Theology of Joy
6th Source: Humanist Teachings
Session 16 — Good without God
Session 17— UU Perspectives on Death and the Afterlife
Session 18 — Let Your Life Speak
Session 19*— Celebration and Reflection* (optional if you are online)
Required Books:
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Everyday Spiritual Practice: Simple Pathways for Enriching Your Life, edited by Scott Alexander
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Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker.
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Let Your Life Speak, by Parker Palmer
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One or both if possible:To Wake to Rise edited by Bill Sinkford and Voices from the Margins, edited by Mark Morrison-Reed and Jacki James.
Next Steps:
Please send the email to participants and review the retreat provided in your Source’s Documents.